Originally Posted by redhed35
hey again,getting back to your question.
Torrid13 made a few good points,ie,if this is just a new thing that has come up.
7 years is a lot to just throw away without exploring other ways to get that spark back.
Have you spoken to your partner about this?
Even just about spicing things up in the bedroom?
Its easy to fall into the routine of daily living and forget that relationships need work to,you get so used to someone being around that you forget the romance in all grocery shopping,work and paying bills.
I have spoeken to her about this. We have also gone to see a familt conselour but that did not work. I asked her to find a sex therpist maybe this would help but she has not. I do not know what to do?