What is the best wording to use on my invitations to indicate the dinner party following our ceremony at a destination location is "non-host" or "self-pay"?

Thanks!

I don't know, but from what I am reading you should include a separate card for the reception and include a map if necessary.
Here are some links that might help and if not maybe give you some other ideas.

wording on invitation self pay reception - Google Search

You can send invitation cards saying "Let's Party" then mentioning the venue and the cost as party entry fee or something like this.