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lydia_123 · Dec 17, 2009, 05:17 PM

So I dated this guy at the begging of my high school year and I liked him A lot but he wouldent kiss me after a month so I thought he dident like me we still talked after and apparently he just dident want to mess things up cause he liked me a lot so you know that sucked but then his best friend liked e and I'm friends with his best friend to so I couldent date him again. About a month later I was having a party and he came over early we flirted a lot and joked around that night he dident just ignore me he dident talk to me I don't really know why so I was pretty pissed at him I kind of freaked at him I shouldn't have but now he won't talk to me but I'm tottally in love with him I mean I know it doesn't sound like that big of a deal or it sounds a little trashy but I mean I would have sex with him I mean he is cute and funny and sweet and he raps his arms around me and I loved him so much but he won't talk to me and it hurts me but I absoulutly love him it sucksi almost wish he would see this and understand it. But someone please give me good advice:) I need help

lydia_123 · Dec 17, 2009, 05:17 PM

Please help!!

Alty · Dec 17, 2009, 05:27 PM

Originally Posted by lydia_123

so I dated this guy at the begging of my high school year and I liked him A lot but he wouldent kiss me after a month so I thought he dident like me we still talked after and apparently he just dident want to mess things up cause he liked me a lot so you know that sucked but then his best friend liked e and I'm friends with his best friend to so I couldent date him again.y about a month later I was having a party and he came over early we flirted a lot and joked around that night he dident just ignore me he dident talk to me I don't really know whso I was pretty pissed at him I kind of freaked at him I shouldn't have but now he won't talk to me but I'm tottally in love with him I mean I know it doesn't sound like that big of a deal or it sounds a little trashy but I mean I would have sex with him I mean he is cute and funny and sweet and he raps his arms around me and I loved him so much but he won't talk to me and it hurts me but I absoulutly love him it sucksi almost wish he would see this and understand it. But someone please give me good advice:) I need help

I can't understand your post. Please re-write it so it makes sense. Use proper words and complete sentences.

Things like this;

but then his best friend liked e and I'm friends with his best friend to so I couldent date him again

And

about a month later I was having a party and he came over early we flirted a lot and joked around that night he dident just ignore me he dident talk to me I don't really know whso I

Don't make any sense. Especially because there's no break from what seems like one sentence to the next.

Your whole post is really hard to read. It's one long run on sentence, misspelled words, contradictions. All the people on this site volunteer, most people won't spend time reading a post that is incoherent.

jaime90 · Dec 17, 2009, 05:39 PM

From what I COULD understand, you left this guy because he wouldn't kiss you, and you want to have sex with him and you "love" him. It's a wonder he left you. My advice for you is to stop flirting and leading him on, and leave him alone. If he has no feelings for you, it is wrong for you to try to get him to like you, or to flirt with him. You need to respect his feelings.

I agree with the above poster as well. Your whole post screamed immaturity.

Alty · Dec 17, 2009, 05:45 PM

After further research, the OP is 14!

Still, at 11 my son writes better then this. He at least puts two sentences together that make sense.

The OP is writing on a computer, there is spell check available. I'm too old to try and decipher what she's writing. My head hurts just from trying. :(

jaime90 · Dec 17, 2009, 05:51 PM

Altenweg- your post made me laugh.

Lydia_123,
There are some very mature 14 year olds out there who know to save sex, and to keep things at friendship level, no matter what their hormones say... Those are the 14 year olds I will give advice to. I will not give it to you, considering you are a minor and you want to have sex with a guy that clearly does not feel the same. Not only is this completely wrong in general, it is also illegal. I advise you not to date until you are a mature enough to date. Period.

CrayonScribbles · Dec 19, 2009, 08:52 AM

Okay so I'll start with this, I am 15 years old and a proud abstinant. It is so disrespectful to yourself when you post that you are 14 years old and want to have sex with someone who is clearly not interested.

And from that I say move on. From what your saying he is ignoring you, which means he needs his time, space, and again is not intrested.

There are a lot of guys in this world so don't waste your time trying to impress this one.
Just be safe. I have to say it is my bigest pet peeve when couples say "I love you" after days, or weeks of dating.