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    Dec 14, 2010, 09:31 PM
    I'm gay and I want a boyfriend?
    Im 16, and I have come out to my family and most of my friends, but not like fully "out", and I just get really lonely a lot. I wake up depressed cause I don't have anybody, but it seems all my friends do. I have a crush on my really good friend and he knows I'm gay, but he's straight and has made that clear to me. Im just really lonely...
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    Dec 14, 2010, 10:19 PM

    At 16 boyfriends, and/or girlfriends break up daily and even those in relatoinshps often are not sure about them.

    Take a breath and remember everyone and "all" your friends are not all in a relatioinship
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    Dec 14, 2010, 10:29 PM

    I think most single people feel that way, especially this time of year. Gay, straight, or bi, doesn't make a difference.

    Chin up, that doesn't mean you can't have fun with family and friends until you do meet someone.
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    Dec 15, 2010, 06:30 AM
    You don't need a boyfriend! You need a girlfriend!
    The society had admitted that being gay is OK. Its not! Your just deceived by your feeling! Being gay will lead you to sin, bad habits and could ruin your life and soul.
    Its time to change, help yourself, seek advice, pray!
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    Dec 15, 2010, 01:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by natarakiak View Post
    You don't need a boyfriend! you need a girlfriend!
    The society had admitted that being gay is ok. Its not! your just deceived by your feeling! Being gay will lead you to sin, bad habits and could ruin your life and soul.
    Its time to change, help yourself, seek advice, pray!
    This is the TEEN board, not the RELIGION board. Keep your religion out of your answers.

    That being said--how old were you when you CHOSE to be straight?

    YOUR opinion doesn't actually answer the OP's question.

    You should perhaps go read the Bible instead of answering questions like this, for two reasons: 1. I don't see you telling people not to get divorced, which is EXPLICITLY defined as adultery in the Bible. Nor do I see you stoning your friends and family for doing so--or for having sex outside of marriage. 2. There's this great thing in the Bible called "forgiveness", and another line that says "Judgement is mine, saith the Lord". Go read about those, and stop judging people.

    Bottom line is this: If you can't actually HELP the OP, and if you're only here to judge, your posts won't stay posted for long.

    If you want to discuss THEOLOGY, then go to the religion boards.
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    Dec 18, 2010, 07:13 AM
    Haha! I'm not preaching, I'm telling the thing that I know it will help best. Why are you pissed off?

    No one is telling this guy that being gay is not OK, probably no one would because this society tends to accept this thing that will ruin this kids life. Even though I will be hated on this, I'm just telling the truth that I know!
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    Dec 18, 2010, 12:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by natarakiak View Post
    haha! im not preaching, im telling the thing that I know it will help best. why are you pissed off?

    no one is telling this guy that being gay is not ok, probably no one would because this society tends to accept this thing that will ruin this kids life. Even though i will be hated on this, im just telling the truth that i know!
    People like you are why hate is perpetuated.

    You don't even realize that you are a bigot, do you?

    In any case, being yourself and accepting yourself as who you are, and as the person that your god made you--THAT is what makes happiness. Not conforming to the narrow views of the people in society like you.

    This is the END of this tangent. Post to help the OP here and start your OWN thread about your views, because all posts that address your bigotry and not the OP's problem will be deleted going forward.
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    Dec 30, 2010, 08:37 PM
    I feel the same way, but I'm completely out to everyone. I'm only 15 and I've had like two boyfriends, but they were long distance. No one where I live is gay and it's hard. I hate it. Now I am slightly feminine so it's harder to find a masculine guy because I remembered there are like three other gay guys at my school, all girly as well.
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    Jan 31, 2011, 06:09 PM
    I'm 16 and completely out, But still cannot find someone. I'm overweight but from what I've learnt about myself, I need a real motivation to loose weight. I also think that my area where there is no GBLT groups, gay guys all seem to have someone and don't want me because of my weight. I know how you feel.
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    Oct 10, 2011, 02:52 PM
    What the **** is the preachy guy on about he needs a slap being gay doesn't ruin your life being anything doesn't ruin your life its who you are as a person that defines you so he needs to take his business and shove it

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