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  • Oct 9, 2011, 10:04 AM
    DammitItzYou
    I'm 14 and I'm confused about my sexuality...
    Hi(:
    Okk so I'm a girl... I few days ago I've noticed something about myself. I was at school and there was a lesbian who works there,she really looks like a guy. She is very nice and so down to earth... After spending time talking to her , I think I have a crush on her now :O. I don't know... I'm so confused right now. Every time I see her walking in the hallway, my heart freakingly beats so fast and I smile for no apparent reason, I can't even look straight in her eyes :O... And the other thing that REALLY makes me even more confused is I have a crush on a GUY at school...
    I never had a crush on a girl before...
    I both like them and do sometimes daydream about them...
    So my question is, am I Bisexual now ?
    And if yah don't mind, can you give me an advice too?
    Thank you so much ! (:
  • Oct 22, 2011, 04:23 PM
    chaziltasm
    You don't have to label yourself with a certain sexuality. Ask yourself this... who do you prefer. Men or women? Do you think about men or women when masturbating? If your prefer men it doesn't mean your gay if you are attracted to women too. Love knows no bounds. I am gay, but there are women I would have sex with, but that don't make me straight. I still love musicals, clothes, and cock honey XD in terms of advice. Read these loevly quotes from two of my favorite musicians.

    "I think everyone's bisexual to some degree or another; it's just a question of whether or not you choose to recognise it and embrace it. Personally, I think choosing between men and women is like choosing between cake and ice cream. You'd be daft not to try both when there are so many different flavours"(bjork)

    ‎"I think of everything as being about a person and a relationship, and I am in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful person. It just happens to be with a lady." (Alison Goldfrapp)

    I hope this helps. Good luck, and I wish you a sexually and romantically for-filled life. Weather it be a man or a woman.
  • Oct 22, 2011, 04:51 PM
    Fr_Chuck
    This is a time of a lot of confussion often for most teens.
    The issue is besides this one girl, do you free attacked to other girls

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