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The guyy I dated 2 years ago that dumped me because of long distance relationship actually moved to my midget town!! Well, here is my problem.I think I ,ight still like him! Here are the problems

Number 1
He has became friends with one of the guys who hates my guts(he don't like me)

Number2
He has a sister in the same grade as us.

I need advice!! Vday dance is 1 1\2 weeks away!! I just hope we at least become friends.ALLL GIIVEE ADVICCCE!! PLEASE I NEED UR HELP!!

Firstly why does this dude he's made friends with hate you so much? And I feel that if this issue can be resolved then all will be well. Also make as many friends as possible, the more people on your side, the more you can use to your advantage.

True.The guy who hates me is my close friends boyfriend.They were talking and he thinks I hate him so that helps, but conversation starters or other wiould be helpful

U go gettum girl!! (lol)

Thanks you but guess what? Sum1 told him I liked him, but he doesn't seem like he knew! It turns out me and his sis are actually friends! And she told me that he said the second day he was here that I liked hhim! Its true but I wonder how he found out? I am actually kind of relieved that he knows, it takes up less time! So know he knows, I just to figure out my next move! HELP PLEASE!

Do you know how he feels about you? It takes two people to have a relationship, so tell him straight-forward how you feel, and if he feels the same, take it to the next step. Invite him to a movie, talk on the phone, get to know more about him as he finds out more about you. Good Luck :-)

Okay,
My ex moved to my school.I thought I liked him, but I made the mistake of telling my friend I did and I didn't want her to talk to him about it but she is all Il help but the only thing is is every one she tries to "help" it ends up in the guy liking her!! And I kind of get a little irritated because she brags, or informs me even though she knows I like him she is all guess what?So'n'so tried to give me his number,and I try to play it cool and say cool or what ever but she just pushes it and says,"Nooo, u dont understand , he insisted on giving it to me!!" so then she tells me she was talking to him in computer lit. and that she asked him if he liked anyone's looks here and he said I kind of like yours, or so she said.It just makes me mad and when I confronted her about it she goes,"Its not my fault if he likes me!"Well its her fault if she flirts with him! What kind of freakin friend does that crap to there best friend!! I would never do that to her but I am thinking about giving her a dose of her own medicine!! She shouldn't even be flirting with anyone because she has been going out with this guy for like 6 months andn he's too much of a hermit to even think she would do something like that.And it justs pisses me off!! For 2 years she has been like this and I have tried to get over it but this is crossing the line!! Heck, she even said a guy flirted with her in the hospital!! And it was his birthday and he asked her can you be my birthday present!! UHHHHHHHHH!! Oh, and she tells me not to talk to Paden(her bf)because he hates me and I tell her not to talk about me and my ex but she asks anyway! ~! I JUST HATE HER RIGHT NOW!! I HAVE BEEN NOTHING BUT NICE TO HER BUT SHE IS BEING A TOTAL GARDENING TOO:L!! I read an article about this girl and she was asking and if it would be considered bragging if she told her friends that all these guys were checking her out and the answer was yes!! Am I wrong or am I just being suspicious about her, am I jealous?Am I wrong to hate her right now? Please helop

Wow I've been in the same position, trust me. If your ex is going to go for someone that has a boyfriend and treats their best friend like that... then he isn't worth your trouble. I don't know about you and your friend, but it sounds to me like she's the one jealous of you, and she wants to make herself feel better by getting the things you want. Well, let the guy go, he really isn't good enough for you if he tries to get your best friend when he knows you like him, plus the fact she has a long-term relationship already going for her and doesn't need someone else.

Thanks laylow, but guess what?Last night at the dance he was paying a lot of attention to me, or so my other friends said.Me and some of my friends were dancing and his eyes were glued to us(not that I blame him)ok, so then I thought he might ask me to dance, but this girl took him away and he was dancing with my really good friends, which I didn't mind, and then he hung out with them for awhile, and then he came back and hung out with us! I was talking, taking pix, and dancing and then my friend took me aside and said he was eyeballin me.What does this mean?

I think maybe he likes you, but wants to see how you react when he's with other girls. Possibly, he just wants to make you want him more by making you jealous. Try calling him or talking to him on AOL or something, see how he feels about you. Don't be hesitant, just flat out ask if he likes you. And if not, ask him what he felt last night, if anything?

Just ask him flat out? Are you sure? I am like best friends with his sister so wouldn't it be awkward? And my friend that you said you've been in the same sitch with, well she told me she was talking to him and asked about me and him(I didn't know she was doing this) and if e would go out with me again and he said "well, it didnt work out so well the first time" and then she said she asked what he didn't like about me and shwe said he said I was sassy but this happened before the dance thing.Well, I got pix of him and this other girl dancing(sources say that he asked her out but I don't know)so shoul,d I bring it up then?

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Guess what? Okkay to day at track practice(field events-discus)it was our first day at field events and we were working on it and he was really good at it so at the end of practice me and this other girl were runin up the hill and we were in the lead and then she stopped so I was in the lead but then I started jogging and two guys passed but he stopped and walked wit me and we kind of talked(normal convo) and then he was like I'm going this way and I said I'm going that way and see you 2morow.Ohh then the other day he made me a sign and he only made me one! Does this mean anything?

Well, to your first post, did you ever ask him if he asked another girl out ? You've changed, I'm sure, and maybe you need to give him some time to realize that. Just because it didn't work the first time, doesn't mean there's no hope for right now.

I'm not saying you have to ask him flat out, don't do it if you're not comfortable with it. But, I would give it some time to progress, with the whole sign thing, it seems like he's starting to have a thing for you. But, don't rush this, just wait and see what happens. Don't try to change yourself to make him like you more, just keep what you're doing, chances are he likes you now more than he did before.

Try not to take anything for granted, he may just like you as a really good friend and wants to support you in what you do. What I'm trying to say is, don't get your hopes up, because if he doesn't, you'll end up being hurt. So just give it some time and see what happens. :-)

That's what I have been thinking.I mean about the getting your hopes up.It turns out he didn't ask her out, though.

OK so you like this guy and he's friends with a guy at your school that hates you well first just talk to the guy and see if he remembers you if he doesn't then just hang out with him and try to be his friend then just right before the dance ask him srry if this is a little late but hey it can't hurt

Wel, I appreciate you at least responded, even though its late.He definitely remebers me.We talk a lot, but there is some kind of secret between, my "best" friend and his sister, and it has to do with him , but they won't tell me because they are afraid it will hurt my "feelings"supposablyAny advice?

Well that's good you know he isn't interested in another girl. How have things been going lately?

Guess what? His sister told me the secret and guess what it is? Not only does he like another girl, but there are three!! Oh and guess who one of them is? MY BEST FRIEND!! And the girl he danced with at the dance, plus the girl who was hookin them up!! But now I think we might just be friends!

Well you should relax take a deep breath I'm saying don't try to make him jelouse but try to make him admit he made a mistake by not going with you to the dance or going out with you and then wait like a week then if he has a girlfriend and doesn't break up with her then he isn't going to do anything about it but hey it's a sign when he made that sign possible I'm not sure its really hard to tell

Wow, and all this time she didn't tell you ? That's a little messed up. I think she should have at least told you to begin with that he wasn't interested in you, so she didn't keep you guessing like this. If this guy is after three different girls, he isn't worth it. What are your other options ? I'm sure there is another guy out there better for you, that would be devoted to only you and not trying to decide between 2 other girls. My advice is to forget about having a relationship with him right now, just be friends. If he comes around and starts liking you, then go from there. But in the meantime try to find someone who is better for you. :-) That is just my advice, it is up to you to decide what to do with it.

I like your advice.I have started to notice somwsigns from him that he might(really! I'm serious)be gay! But I will start looking and thanks to all whove posted