Starting. My ex girlfriend and I have dated for over a year. We were doing really good until things started to get ugly. On Facebook, I eavesdropped on my ex's conversation with a friend saying she wants to be free and doesn't want a boyfriend anymore. That kind of made me sad and angry, and I talked to her about that situation, suggesting to go on a break. So, she contacted me 2 days later saying she saw my MYSPACE comments of me "flirting with a girl and accused me of cheating." She got really angry at me because I put "hearts and such on the comments". See, me and this girl were talking on MYSPACE weeks ago before any of this happened. She had to go to the dentist to get her wisdom teeth removed. I was feeling bad for her and I told her it'll be OK. So I send her hugs and hearts to make her feel better. What really pissed her was when I put, you deserve a kiss for being a brave little girl (Damn me!). But I was only joking. And me and this girl were really good friends longer before me and my ex ever went out. But what made my girlfriend suspicious is that this girl would always say hi or even hug me whenever I passed by her at school. Not just her, lots of girls would always hit on me or hug me and such which gave my girlfriend the wrong message.

After the breakup, I confronted my ex at Monday to explain everything to her. We had a long talk about how I was only joking about the kiss and how you wanted a break from me and blah blah.she cried and such. I asked her to give me a 2nd chance to explain. Later that night, she started texting me, I replied saying, "Why are you still texting me if you said it's over?" and she replied "None of your concern." So she basically stalked me that whole 3 or 2 days I think? We were fighting and I was trying my best to tell her I'm sorry and explaining the story.

So I returned back to school, I have her in two of my classes. She ignored me that whole day. All she asked for was the Game Boy my friend Christian promised her that day. He gave me the Game Boy to give to my ex since we had the same class. I gave it to her. 5 days later from today, she continued ignoring me. Her friend said to me that my ex doesn't want to hear anything about me anymore and such. I figure she was mad at me. She wouldn't even look at me.

So around Friday night, I sent my ex a love letter on how we met, how felt, and how I'm sad about the whole breakup. But her best friend told me that my ex laughed at the whole thing.

Then, she randomly talked to my friend online saying she miss him and my other friend. But it makes no sense, because she can see them everyday.

I really want to get her back.

Any suggestions/tips?

She sounds rather confused in my opinion, saying it's over one minute then texting the next. But to laugh at your heartfelt letter? That is rather mean. But then again, you only have her friend's word on that.
A year is quite long for someone so young (I can't work out how old you are but I am guessing fairly young!) and so that to me is quite serious. I saw someone for a year when I was at school and when he left to work abroad, I felt like my life was over. BUT it didn't last long. Relationships when you are younger generally (and I don't mean every single one) are a bit easier to get over.
You have so much to look forward to, so many new experiences, so many new people to meet. You obviously feel strongly for this girl but if she is acting so strangely, maybe give yourselves some space. Be civil if you see each other, but just wait and see what happens.
If it is meant to be it will happen. Try and enjoy yourself with your true friends and see what happens. Chin up :)

Stop chasing her and leave her alone. Sure its hard to be dumped, but keep your dignity, and self respect by bowing out gracefully, and doing your own thing. Now you can try begging, pleading, and crying, but that's a good way to push her away, and make a fool of yourself. And stop and think for a second. If there was a good way to get exes back when we wanted them back, nobody would be broken up, right?

Focus instead with getting over your feelings of loss, and rejection, so you can be ready for better options and opportunities to have fun, and be happy. Feelings changes in us humans all the time, and yours will also someday, but hers have changed already. That's just a reality of life we all live with. So you can handle your situation with maturity, or as a child, that's up to you, and you may not want to hear this, but this is but one event in your life that makes you stronger through experience. How you handle yourself is what counts and dignity, and self respect is the way to go.

It’s true what is posted above. We loved to be adored and to know that someone is interested in us. Unfortunately at the age you are it’s mostly treated like a game. She leads you around and then you lead her around, add her friends and your friends to the mix and it can be like Chinese whispers. Forget her.. Or at least pretend to forget her… and hopefully she’ll come to you.