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    linnealand Posts: 1,088, Reputation: 216
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    #21

    Dec 2, 2008, 06:01 PM

    I think some important points have been made in the last few posts, but the lust thing is making me cringe.

    I'm thinking infatuation over lust.

    Below that (or before it) is having a serious crush.

    I'd think most infatuation is really just a crush.

    Crushing and loving are different.

    I do believe one can feel love for someone else at 13. However, and this is a big, big "however," it's going to be different from the kind of love that they'll be feeling as they grow up. There's nothing you can do about that. The way you feel love changes.

    Love and maturity go hand in hand. Then again, so do love and innocence. Part of me wants to say it doesn't happen, but who am I to say it can't? I "fell in love" with my high school boyfriend at 14, and we were together for 4 years. I still love him. I think we love each other. We just know that loving someone and being together are two different things.

    With all of that said, hormones also play their part. Lust, which is the physical side, can play its part. That is true. Love can involve lust, but lust doesn't mean it's love.

    Love also comes with responsibilities. So do love related actions. Lots of responsibilities.

    Tomboy, if you're still here, are you dating this person, or are you carrying secret feelings for him?
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    #22

    Jan 8, 2009, 04:42 PM

    Its totally possible
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    #23

    Jan 13, 2009, 05:46 AM
    Looks like tomboy has come and gone... was only here one day..

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/search...archid=3603585

    Too bad, as this was a very sincere question and received some profound attention from other posters.

    Belated Happy New Year, JB.. and all.

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    #24

    Feb 27, 2011, 09:39 PM
    Of corse you can love knows no age!
    Im 13 myself and have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half! I love him!
    My Uncle has been with his wife since he was 11 he's now 35 happily harried so why not!
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    Nov 19, 2011, 08:47 AM
    Yeah,I had a very special boyfriend at 13.he proposed me when we were 12 and I did not accept it as I thought I was premature. But he kept on loving me so hard that I surrendered to his love the very next year. He believed I was a perfect girl, in beauty, in studies and I truly was the best in class. We continued our relationship through a lot of misunderstandings. He was one of the 7 best boys in class. So some stupid small-fry girls CRUSHED on him(even one of my best friends!). I could not bear them and would make my boyfriend jealous by roaming with a cute boy who CRUSHED on me.(7 boys crushed on me at that time!) this is very common in classroom-young love. So then we got together again after some lovely words and romantic quarrels. But if your boyfriend has a lot of girls crushing on him, just be a little keen eyed and stay with a little bit of mood in case he might get too proud to look at you someday. Don't melt easily because he might think you are a puppet.
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    Jan 8, 2013, 06:46 AM
    [QUOTE=gara;1364688]You can fall in love in any time of age because it's part of our body and feelings we born with it just becarfull you are too young to fall in love with someone , love sometimes it's trun you in bad way don't let yourself control you under stand you can't handle it right now love it's too strong emotion for you don't let it control you forget it and

    Will you be able to move on from the guy you think your in love with like ever you may mess your relation ship but will it be k or do we have to move on
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    #27

    Jan 8, 2013, 07:04 AM
    Dating... :)
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    Nov 19, 2013, 12:58 PM
    I feel you.Im also 13 askig the same question... Theres this boy. I am happiest when I think about me and him together.. im in 8th grade but I've been through so much a lot of people (even adults) tell me I'm o smart for my age. Too mature and that I need to step back and enjoy childhood. A bit late for that ut I'm enjoying being teen.(exuse spelling errors. Keyboard is broken) But this boy.. akes me happy sad confused and joyful at the same time. The way we firstkinda justreally started to think about each other like that was at a carnival. I bumped into him and we rode the zipper. He kissed me on the cheek when we were at te peak of the ride then on the lips. We rode rides ate cotton candy and he kissed me again when I had to leave. Ive hd a crush on himand for him to ikeme too.. ive never been happier. I can't remember when I was this happy. If you fel the same then I do in fact think we are in first love.I wish you luck and hope things work out! <3

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