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  • Mar 25, 2007, 04:27 AM
    lfish2489
    My best friend is ignoring me
    I have a group of 8 friends at school and one of them is my best friend. Whenever she and I hang out by ourselves she acts like my best friend and we have a really good time. When we are at school or with our other friends she ignores me and will hardly even talk to me. I'm getting really annoyed with her because I don't understand why she is acting two different ways. I don't want to stop being friends with her because she is the best friend I've ever had and I'm moving at the end of this year anyway, so it is pointless to try and make new friends now when I'm moving in 3 months. What should I do?
  • Mar 25, 2007, 05:01 AM
    TheSavage
    She sounds 2 faced. Do you really need a best friend like that? 3 months?Once you hit my age that will seem like a weekend to you lol. Best of wishes with your new life. -- Savage
  • Mar 25, 2007, 01:51 PM
    daizeebug
    Well 3 months isn't that long, so I'd definetely try to not let this bother you... so I'd try and get to know a lot of the other people you hang out with and don't necessarily try and get a new best friend, sometimes its better to just have a lot of good friends.
  • Mar 25, 2007, 04:06 PM
    kristynn
    Ask her! Talk to her about it... Tell her you feel ignored when you two are around your other friends.

    She might not be aware of her behavior.

    If she is aware though, she must have a reason. Find out what the reason is. She's the only one who knows it...
  • Mar 26, 2007, 01:57 AM
    cissy0801
    OMG you are expriencing nearly the same thing as me... simillar but she hardly does that... anyway

    If I was you I would just ignore it and if it gives you tooo much goose bumps than just let the cat out of the bag and talk to her!!

    :D :) :p ;) :cool: :eek:
  • Aug 7, 2009, 11:23 PM
    secret1234
    I have the same problem! We have a group of four friends and I just joined up. We are in the eighth grade now but they've been friends since third grade and I joined them in seventh grade. I met them through my best friend whom I knew since sixth grade, and we have become so close we tell each other everything. She acts like herself only around me, but when we are with the rest of the group, she ignores me and latches onto the girl who she used to be best friends with. They seem like the perfect bffs though I hate to admit it. At the end of the day it feels like all she cares about is her and she just uses me as her confidante. I don't want to leave the group because I really like the other girls. The girl my best friend cares about most is really nice and I love hanging out with her. She treats my best friend and I the same, but my best friend seems to think differently. And though everyone knows we are really close, she won't admit it and says she doesn't have a best friend, just really close ones. And she told me to my face that she prefers our other friend to me. And she won't admit it when I try to speak to her about it.

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