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    May 30, 2007, 04:20 PM
    Is he gay?
    ( I am female) my man get's really turned on when we're doing it by performing a "sex act" on my tongue (like oral)-he can barely handle it. Does this mean he wants to do this w/ a guy? He says no, but I DOUBT he's really going to admit it!
    What do you think?
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    May 30, 2007, 04:22 PM
    Are you series. Come on. This does not mean he is gay. Where would you get an idea like that. It is silly.

    I think your borrowing for trouble that is not even there.

    Making a mountain out of a mole hill.

    I hope you have heard of some of these sayings. Good luck to you and stop thinking the worse. Your looking into things that are not there. As far as I can tell by your post.

    Joe
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    May 30, 2007, 04:24 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jesushelper76
    Are you series. Come on. This does not mean he is gay. Where would you get an idea like that. It is silly.

    I think your borrowing for trouble that is not even there.

    Making a mountain out of a mole hill.

    I hope you have heard of some of these sayings. Good luck to you and stop thinking the worse. Your looking into things that are not there. As far as I can tell by your post.

    Joe
    Yes, I am "series" I think u mean serious.anyway... I was just wondering. Sheesh. No thanks to you! :mad:
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    May 30, 2007, 04:24 PM
    It does sound kind of strange. Could you elaborate on it?
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    May 30, 2007, 04:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Matt3046
    It does sound kind of strange. Could you elaborate on it?
    There's nothing more to elaborate, it is a tongue "job". Kind of weird! Huh!
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    May 30, 2007, 04:28 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ProfQ
    yes, I am "series" i think u mean serious.anyway..........................I was just wondering. sheesh. no thanks to you!!:mad:
    Ok- sorry-u gave me your input! Thanks
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    May 30, 2007, 04:28 PM
    No, it is not weird and it is not gay. But if you think it is, then that is your issue. But I am telling you it is not something to make a problem out of.
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    May 30, 2007, 04:29 PM
    For a guy, yeah it is, maybe just tell him it's creeping you out. Sometimes we men just have to be told, do this do that etc. He might think you are really liking it.
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    May 30, 2007, 04:35 PM
    Just because likes oral sex doesn't mean he's gay.
    Most women orgasm through oral sex. Does that make them lesbians?
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    May 30, 2007, 04:47 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by ProfQ
    there's nothing more to elaborate, it is a tongue "job". kinda weird!! huh!
    Not weird at all.
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    May 30, 2007, 05:02 PM
    Sorry-I'm lost, I'd love to be able to help but I'm confused-I think he is sucking your tongue like a penis? Is this right? -if so there is no "gay" issue-you are too concerned with some situation that has absolutely nothing to do with gay,bi or hetrosexuality-stop worrying.

    Cheers
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    May 30, 2007, 05:18 PM
    I'm a little bit lost here, do you mean he likes to give you oral sex? Or you giving it to him? Or am I way off?
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    May 30, 2007, 05:22 PM
    Maybe it's the definition of "normal" versus any other shading of sexuality that people have the greatest difficulty with?

    Sexuality is such a grey area.
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    May 30, 2007, 05:38 PM
    I'm kind of thinking along other lines now, as in a "tongue job" somewhere else..! Good god I won't sleep now until I know!
    In any case if he was gay do you really think he would be with you? And more to the point, would he be having sex with you?
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    May 31, 2007, 07:24 AM
    That's like me saying I like oral so I must be full- on lesbian.

    He's probably not gay..
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    May 31, 2007, 07:30 AM
    Just a thought, if he didn't like oral would that make him gay too?
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    May 31, 2007, 07:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ProfQ
    ( i am female) my man get's really turned on when we're doing it by performing a "sex act" on my tongue (like oral)-he can barely handle it. does this mean he wants to do this w/ a guy? he says no, but i DOUBT he's really going to admit it!!
    what do u think?
    We have no doubt that your man is gay... that, or, he doesn't think you taste very good.
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