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rockerchick_682 · May 26, 2007, 05:42 AM

This is dumb, but I just broke up with my boyfriend... yesterday and I'm sure I should just wait it out till I don't feel this way anymore, but am I worth it? Am I pretty at all? Will I every find a mature guy that really wants a relationship with me?

Ladyviper · May 26, 2007, 05:51 AM

Pretty is a frame of mind, if you feel pretty then you are pretty. You are too young to be looking for Mr. Right, at age 17 you should be thinking about your future and career. Of course you are worth it, everyone is worthy of a loving relationship. Focus on school and friends, and one day when you least expect it and are ready for it, he will show up.

talaniman · May 26, 2007, 06:03 AM

Your down now, and that's so normal after a break up, it feels like the end of the world, but its not, and with time and healing, and doing the things you enjoy, not only will you get over it but others will be attracted by your happy attitude, and positive nature. Keep a bat handy to beat them off, if you have to. Don't worry it will get better.

papucho413 · Jun 27, 2009, 03:41 AM

SO sorry sweeheart,you getting me heartbroking too .

kpdns · Jun 28, 2009, 10:04 PM

You obviously had a good reason for breaking up with the guy - trust your judgement and know that even if the situation is tough, you have done something that will, in the long run, leave you much happier. Buy yourself some flowers, get a pedicure/manicure, buy a cute top, get your hair done or buy some new lip gloss. Do something to change up your pattern and your every day look so that you feel special and fresh. It can be a symbol of your new life and will help you move on.

smileyman22336 · Jul 17, 2009, 06:13 PM

You should replace these questions with more important ones. How will I make a difference in this life? Ect.

Jake2008 · Jul 18, 2009, 04:07 AM

It is normal to question many things when you have a breakup, and feel down about yourself, wondering if you will ever be happy again. Anybody going through a breakup will not get through it unscathed, and doubting everything.

The plus side of that is, you are smart enough to accept a breakup as 'the end' of a relationship. That shows maturity. Realizing it really is over, and accepting that, allows you to heal, become independent again, regain your confidence, and move on to the next relationship down the road.

You will also bring this new resolve through and be stronger and more experienced the next time. You will reach a point where you can appreciate what went wrong with the last one, and what was good. Figuring out things like that will help you find someone more suitable.

Take an inventory. You are not leaving one relationship without learning things about yourself that were good too. Having not experienced a breakup, you may never have realized how emotionally strong you are, or that you were capable of contributing to a relationship such as devotion, compassion, trustworthiness, loyalty, etc. All those things that you possess, you bring along to the next relationship.

blondndisguise5 · Jul 23, 2009, 09:03 PM

This is a great time to go out into the world as your own woman and grow so much! Fill the space he's left with yourself and complete yourself. You are worth it, I MAN will come along and you want to just be as fully yourself and as interesting to share yourself with him. Focus on you right now because you ARE worth it, you have so much potential! And I know I don't know you but you are gorgeous :) my challenge to you is look in the mirror and every week pick our something new, even minute that you like about yourself and when you walk around think about how great that feature is!