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    42acd65 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    May 25, 2007, 01:06 PM
    Talking dirty
    My husband wants me to talk dirty to him, how do I do it, I am bashfull.
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    May 25, 2007, 01:22 PM
    Drinking helps me? Not telling you to drink, which I don't do anymore, but it did help me to loosen up.

    Just remember... This is your husband and you plan to spend the rest of your lives together, why not let yourself go and enjoy every moment together?! Would he do something for you to make you happy, even if it was awkward to him? He probably would, right? Find a way to do it for him too.

    Good Luck!
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    May 25, 2007, 02:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 42acd65
    My husband wants me to talk dirty to him, how do i do it, i am bashfull.
    First girlfriend get drunk! Then let your inmagination take over talk to him nasty the only thing that's going to happen is your gonnaturn him on, if you have to close your eyes prtend yourwith some one like justin t or anyone else if it makes you feel beeter blindfold him tie him up close your eyes oh wait just first whisper in his ear nasty things, trust me you'll get over your shyness been there done that!
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    May 25, 2007, 06:06 PM
    First of course getting drunk can also have a lot of bad effects, and can cause a lot of health issues. And because one person becomes an fool while drinking others become mean, wanting to cheat, and just sick.

    IF you don't feel good about something, don't. But honestly this is your husband, what do you have to feel bashful about with your spouse.
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    May 25, 2007, 06:56 PM
    I would suggest telling him the ways that he turns you on, things about his body and yours, ways that he makes you feel really good, ways that turn him on too.
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    May 25, 2007, 10:56 PM
    My ex-boyfriend liked me to talk dirty, I was really bashful at first. But once you start... you can't stop. It will come out so natrually after a while.
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    May 26, 2007, 03:16 AM
    I know how you feel, I'm the same I don't know why but I just feel really self conscious.
    I guess it helped that we started as a long distance relationship, we would speak on the phone and admittedly it got me to open up a little.
    I know it sounds really stupid, but if you are a bit bashfull pick up the phone.as I said stupid, but it does work. Get him in one room upstairs, and you downstairs, and call him, let him take the lead, and I promise you will let go, then when you feel ready go to him and continue where you left off, worked for me.
    Also remember, men don't expect you to be a p**n star, you do not have to use the words they do, that's what got me shy at first, I thought it was what men wanted to hear.after doing it I now know its not like that, just tell him what feels good, what you want him to do, what you want to do to him, kiss him then whisper stuff to him etc, you will get the hang of it in no time... builds confidence as well, for me... good luck.
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    May 26, 2007, 01:22 PM
    Thanks guys - Will try what you recommend = just hope I find the words - words are my problem and I have difficulty expressing myself. He knows I love him more than anything in the world.
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    May 27, 2007, 04:31 PM
    ^^^All very good responses^^^
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    May 28, 2007, 07:04 PM
    Mine wants me to talk dirty too, it's not that I'm shy, I just have no idea what to say! PMSL!
    I'm all for the alcohol part!
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    May 28, 2007, 10:03 PM
    He's your husband, don't be ashamed just ask him what he likes... it might be easier than you think. It it's not just tell him.
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    May 29, 2007, 01:10 PM
    I know that is a problem... Girls look so cute when they try but it comes out just "silly". I find it best when my GF would do things and tell me what she is going to do next, and Guy's in general love to hear " Oh! Its so... And you can tell us how much you are enjoying this and that {even if you are not so fond.} We love to hear about your anticipation for our climax. Sorry but these things are so easy to do and are so easy to say. Its better than mentally writing a porn novel in your head and dictating it instantly!

    Hope that helps a little.

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