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    May 15, 2007, 08:57 AM
    Friend or foe?
    I have this friend for the opposite sex I'll call "Rick". We have been friends for about a year and he has helped me through some tough times. But the thing is he wants to be more than friends and we have discussed this over and over, I am not interested in him like that... it just blew my mind that he told me he loved me... now this is a guy that tries to get serious with every girl he can... Hes sweet, caring and will help me if I am in need. I give him advice on his dates because he can be somewhat gullible. And some girls have played some pretty nasty tricks on him. Anyway recently I asked him to help me move some things out of my house that my ex-husband occupies, and the response I got from "Rick" was "I didn't put you in that situation its not my problem your pregnant and your stuff is still over there. And he proceeds to tell me he's not into games and so forth and so on... well this is not a game its my life. So I guess my question is was he really a friend after all or just wanting a piece?
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    May 15, 2007, 09:00 AM
    He seems a bit angry that you rejected him, did you ask him to help you move stuff shortly after you rejected him opr shortly after you told him you were pregnant. He may also be a bit scared of your ex, I don't know how old he is, but you said your ex husband so you/he can't be too young so this is unlikely.

    It may just be the timing and he may go back to being a good friend, he seems upset right now. Just my opinion though.

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