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    Apr 22, 2007, 05:54 PM
    Sad and lonely
    Why am I so sad and lonely? I'm a nice guy. People like me. I get along great with others( I'm kind of quiet, though) and I'm an OK student. One of the things that frustrate me is not being able to do projects because I don't have the things that I need. As you can guess, I don't have a lot of friends, too.
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    Apr 23, 2007, 06:54 PM
    Your post is confusing me... What do you mean by you can't do projects because you don't have the things you need? And what does that have to do with not having a lot of friends, or being sad and lonely?
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    Apr 23, 2007, 06:55 PM
    I am kind of confused, too. Upset over the projects or that you have few friends?
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    Apr 23, 2007, 07:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by hamworld05
    Why am I so sad and lonely? I'm a nice guy. People like me. I get along great with others( I'm kind of quiet, though) and I'm an ok student. One of the things that frustrate me is not being able to do projects because I don't have the things that I need. As you can guess, I don't have a lot of friends, too.
    I would be happy to be you're friend. My name is Kate. If you want to chat message me back...
    Im always looking for someone new to talk to
    Xx
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by phillysteakandcheese
    Your post is confusing me.... What do you mean by you can't do projects because you don't have the things you need? And what does that have to do with not having alot of friends, or being sad and lonely?
    It doesn't, but it often frustrates me.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:26 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Emland
    I am kind of confused, too. Upset over the projects or that you have few friends?
    Both.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:36 PM
    Well, you have friends here. What kind of projects do you work on?
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:39 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Emland
    Well, you have friends here. What kind of projects do you work on?
    Media projects, history projects, I just completed a Science project.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:40 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Emland
    Well, you have friends here. What kind of projects do you work on?
    It's not the same... It feels like a fantasy world, where I see names, words and pictures... I can't "feel" the emotions you're feeling.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:41 PM
    Sounds like you are still in school. Have you made any efforts to meet and talk to people there?
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:43 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Emland
    Sounds like you are still in school. Have you made any efforts to meet and talk to people there?
    I have made one effort this year. It ended miserably. Last year, I talked to a lot of people.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:44 PM
    Why is this year different than last year?
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Emland
    Why is this year different than last year?
    I don't know. I'm trying to remember. I think I liked the solitude, and I got used to it. I really don't know.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:54 PM
    So you are able to talk to other people. Now, just seek out other people that share your interests - join a club, etc. and meet some people.

    I am friendly with everyone at work and chat up customers left and right but only have 1 person I really consider a friend, besides my husband. Pick quality over quanity when it comes to picking friends.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 06:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Emland
    So you are able to talk to other people. Now, just seek out other people that share your interests - join a club, etc., and meet some people.

    I am friendly with everyone at work and chat up customers left and right but only have 1 person I really consider a friend, besides my husband. Pick quality over quanity when it comes to picking friends.
    I'm already in a club. I plan to go the Ottawa Chess Federation club in the summer.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 07:01 PM
    There you go. Just get out there and meet people.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 07:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Emland
    There ya go. Just get out there and meet people.
    There's one problem with the club I'm in. They're all kids!
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    Apr 24, 2007, 07:05 PM
    OK. Once I join a new club, I'll do that. Now, what about the sad part?
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    Apr 24, 2007, 07:06 PM
    I'm usually a happy guy( despite the loneliness), but once something wrong happens, I get angry and then anger turns into sadness.
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    Apr 24, 2007, 07:06 PM
    Since I don't know how old you are, that is a tough one. If you are an adult, well the "kids" should have parents or other older people you can meet. If you mean they are more immature than you, look a little harder. There are diamonds in the rough in there somewhere and probably too shy to say hello.

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