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    AyaTheGummyFrog Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 28, 2021, 10:29 AM
    Am I losing my best friends
    I feel like I’m losing my friends. Yesterday and the day before my friends were hanging out but they didn’t say a word to me. I’ve cried so much at this point because it feels like they didn’t want me there. I’m not trying to say that they can’t hang out without me, but I thought we were close enough for them to want me there and ask a simple question, if I wanted to join them. Am I overreacting for feeling hurt and upset? Should I confront them? I don’t know what to do.... I’m scared to contact them and it feels like I’m just being annoying :/ What should I do?
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    Apr 15, 2021, 04:39 PM
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    Apr 15, 2021, 07:40 PM
    Perhaps you're ages could help us help you sort things out. To be honest this sounds like middle school situations. Have you tried talking to one of your friends one on one privately on what could be going on?

    That's what I would do.
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    Apr 16, 2021, 11:49 AM
    At your age, you Don't have any "best friends".  So you choose whom you want to be your best friend (for right now), and that's fine...they start out as friends first, then later in life they will prove to be your best friend's. Don't be Bothered if you find out that 'your' best friend has other best friends. There is a saying; A person can't live with his best friend or brother/sister...Healthy to give friends space. Only when you feel comfortable enough to say anything to your friend, will it prove best friends. 
    Example: What!  You went out without me??? Why didn't you come and get me, I was stuck at the house all night.


    There is a quick fix when you feel down and out. Just start laughing.. It works, try it next time you are feeling down. 

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