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    #81

    Oct 16, 2019, 11:36 AM
    Just my OWN observation and feelings on the a couple of subjects:

    1) Abortion: I just don't see how killing an unborn baby is in any way justifiable unless the unborn child is of a rape or the child will be born with birth defects or the child's birth will kill the mother.....that is my position and I have thought about it quite a bit but I can not condone women using abortion as a form of birth control...I have known women like this, they could in no way be construed as "good" women.

    2) I believe it is cruel for adults, any adults, to use children as PROTECTIVE SHIELDS in any way......a child is not your protection.....you, as an adult/parent, are supposed to protect your children: When migrants approach the U.S. border toting their children, they do so with the full knowledge that this is a dangerous practice that really does endanger the lives of their children.....there is no way that they don't know this.....but they do it any way and they do it because they believe that their children will offer them a free-pass into the U.S....they think that their children will offer them a protective cloak: I believe this is a dastardly, bastardly thing to do....it is certainly cowardly.
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    Oct 16, 2019, 12:07 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    The baby killed in abortion has no choice. Why do you ignore it's inability to choose? How does a person in slavery exercise less choice than the baby killed in abortion? Why do you not support abortion?

    I cannot get pregnant nor choose for another human what they're choice is. My friend has 3 kids, loves them dearly, great mom, but her insurance covered her doctor visits to make sure she didn't get pregnant before she was ready for a family. I can respect that and no one ever knew of her personal choice and action. I cannot get pregnant nor make the choice for another, but in my mind those early doctor visits are not abortions, but I just don't support abortions and that's just MY choice. Exceptions possible for rape or incest or health of the mother, as Vac states, and many would agree with that. I honestly don't know how I would feel about it were I a female, but then it would still be MY choice wouldn't it? I don't think a majority of women use it as BC, but I know many use it often.

    2) I believe it is cruel for adults, any adults, to use children as PROTECTIVE SHIELDS in any way......a child is not your protection.....you, as an adult/parent, are supposed to protect your children: When migrants approach the U.S. border toting their children, they do so with the full knowledge that this is a dangerous practice that really does endanger the lives of their children.....there is no way that they don't know this.....but they do it any way and they do it because they believe that their children will offer them a free-pass into the U.S....they think that their children will offer them a protective cloak: I believe this is a dastardly, bastardly thing to do....it is certainly cowardly.
    Running from certain death with the hope for a better life is an act of love and cowards wouldn't take that chance would they? You don't know without a humane process to find out and act accordingly. This problem ain't going away folks and has been around for 400 years. More in other parts of the world.

    I ask you Christians what would Jesus do?
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    #83

    Oct 16, 2019, 01:57 PM
    I ask you Christians what would Jesus do?
    Now there is the question isn't it? He wouldn't suggest you have health care but would heal the sick free of charge, go you and do likewise. He wouldn't argue with his opponents but convict them of wrongdoing
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    Oct 16, 2019, 02:48 PM
    I cannot get pregnant nor choose for another human what they're choice is. My friend has 3 kids, loves them dearly, great mom, but her insurance covered her doctor visits to make sure she didn't get pregnant before she was ready for a family. I can respect that and no one ever knew of her personal choice and action. I cannot get pregnant nor make the choice for another, but in my mind those early doctor visits are not abortions, but I just don't support abortions and that's just MY choice. Exceptions possible for rape or incest or health of the mother, as Vac states, and many would agree with that. I honestly don't know how I would feel about it were I a female, but then it would still be MY choice wouldn't it? I don't think a majority of women use it as BC, but I know many use it often.
    But again, why do you herald choice so much but not choice for the unborn child? Don't you think a human being should have some choice concerning his/her own life? I really don't know what to make of those who will not raise a finger in defense of the lives of the most innocent and defenseless among us.

    As to why you don't support abortion, perhaps you should think that through.

    BTW, it is an exceedingly small number of abortions that are due to rape or serious birth defects, something on the order of 2 or 3%.
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    Oct 16, 2019, 06:42 PM
    He wouldn't suggest you have health care but would heal the sick free of charge, go you and do likewise.
    I can go with that. Doubt doctors would though.

    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    But again, why do you herald choice so much but not choice for the unborn child? Don't you think a human being should have some choice concerning his/her own life? I really don't know what to make of those who will not raise a finger in defense of the lives of the most innocent and defenseless among us.

    As to why you don't support abortion, perhaps you should think that through.

    BTW, it is an exceedingly small number of abortions that are due to rape or serious birth defects, something on the order of 2 or 3%.
    An unborn child has no choice. Would you stop a female from seeing her doctor to make sure she does not maintain a possible pregnancy? How about the morning after pill, would you ban those too, and all abortion inducing meds? Maybe you should think through your own means, methods and ideology as well. Neither us is doing very well stopping people from getting an abortion, and I assume neither one of us wants to go back to the days of life threatening back alley abortions either.

    Do we?
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    #86

    Oct 16, 2019, 06:51 PM
    An unborn child has no choice.
    An unborn child has no way to express a choice. That's why those children count on you to protect them.

    Would you stop a female from seeing her doctor to make sure she does not maintain a possible pregnancy?
    What??

    How about the morning after pill, would you ban those too, and all abortion inducing meds?
    I just have to ask myself this. Do those meds destroy a human life? If they do, then ban them.

    Neither us is doing very well stopping people from getting an abortion,
    I'm the only one trying to
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    #87

    Oct 16, 2019, 06:55 PM
    I prefer the early education route so better choices can be made. What's you method?
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    #88

    Oct 16, 2019, 07:24 PM
    I prefer the early education route so better choices can be made. What's you method?
    I think early ed could be useful. It needs to include what happens during an abortion and a strong encouragement to reserve sex for marriage. Better choices? I don't think there are many adult women out there who lack an understanding of what it takes to become pregnant.
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    #89

    Oct 16, 2019, 07:38 PM
    Not getting pregnant until one is ready is the goal, but controling human behavior is next to impossible, and stuff does happen, and people make mistakes. The trend is going down, and fact is what of all those unreported abortions.
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    #90

    Oct 16, 2019, 09:42 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I just have to ask myself this. Do those meds destroy a human life? If they do, then ban them.
    Is a zygote a human life?
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    #91

    Oct 17, 2019, 04:22 AM
    Is a zygote a human life?
    That's a good question. I would answer with two questions.

    1. Is it human?
    2. Is it alive?

    You'll have to draw your own conclusions. That was once you. Were you a human life at that time?

    If you decide it is not a human life, then at what point does it become one, and what significant event in development makes the difference? That single cell splitting and becoming two cells? The two becoming four? Cellular differentiation? Organ development? A beating heart?

    I suppose it just comes down to how you want to view it. The nine months of pregnancy is either one of the absolute marvels and wonders of human existence, or just nothing more than some tissue to flush down the toilet. Your choice, but bear in mind that choices have consequences. We cannot, for instance, tell children that human life is special and sacred unless, of course, you want to kill your unborn baby, and then think they are really going to believe that. If human life is really special and sacred, then abortion is wrong. If abortion is OK, then human life is not really special and sacred. There is no middle ground.
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    Oct 17, 2019, 06:39 AM
    Maybe that's the difference in us, as some see in absolutes, and some see in the full range where there is a middle ground. We have debated when life begins, and some say when the egg is fertilized, some say when it leaves the womb.

    I will be honest and abortions after 6 to 8 weeks just creep me out. Cleaning out a zygote not so much. Life can be precious, to some all life is, but of the more than a hundred and 50 million women and a falling KNOWN abortion rate of less than a million a year, that's not a wholesale stampede to kill babies, just the opposite. Instead of perfect behavior, I can take just moving in a good direction and working to improve on the very human flaws we all have.

    I don't think we will be perfect in my lifetime, but plenty of room to get better. That's why when I say I prefer the educational approach to this issue it's more than where babies come from and how, but an awareness of HOW to understand and listen to your own female body and know what to do when you have sex, and think you could be pregnant, and as I have said on this site many times, and will say many more ABSTINENCE is the only 100% effective birth control method.

    I much prefer the truth of facts while recognizing the intense feelings on this subject by flawed humans. Maybe it seems more people are doing the abortion thing, but I bet it's always been a wider spread practice than has been perceived before, but more is know now, since more has been revealed over time, and more people are expressing their own views on the subject.

    The secret is out in the open and I think that's a good thing.
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    #93

    Oct 17, 2019, 06:59 AM
    abortion rate of less than a million a year, that's not a wholesale stampede to kill babies
    Wow. Merely 900,000 a year? That's more than those killed in auto accidents for the past twenty years combined. It's more than double the number of Americans killed in World War 2. Would you be so casual about it if it was young children being killed at that rate?

    I much prefer the truth of facts
    Is this an example of your use of "facts"? "I will be honest and abortions after 6 to 8 weeks just creep me out. Cleaning out a zygote not so much." The truth is, the only data you mentioned above was in your seemingly happy acceptance of abortion numbers now being merely "less than a million".

    Middle ground? Where is the middle ground between regarding human life as wondrous and sacred versus treating the unborn as so much meat fit for the garbage pile?
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    Oct 17, 2019, 08:05 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    Wow. Merely 900,000 a year? That's more than those killed in auto accidents for the past twenty years combined. It's more than double the number of Americans killed in World War 2. Would you be so casual about it if it was young children being killed at that rate?
    It is what it is, and despite all our combined caring on various levels neither of us has moved the needle very much, have we?
    Instead of perfect behavior, I can take just moving in a good direction and working to improve on the very human flaws we all have. You simply cannot control others and your efforts may effect some, but that's not enough. Fact is young children are not killed at that rate are they so don't get hyped on hypotheticals. I noticed you like to add descriptive words to mine like the use of MERELY 900,000 to my post and you need to stop that.

    Is this an example of your use of "facts"? "I will be honest and abortions after 6 to 8 weeks just creep me out. Cleaning out a zygote not so much." The truth is, the only data you mentioned above was in your seemingly happy acceptance of abortion numbers now being merely "less than a million".
    You do it again, add your words to my post. I just state the facts and not casually as you say so half the problem is you not accurately representing my words. STOP IT! It is NOT a happy acceptance at all so STOP that crap!

    Middle ground? Where is the middle ground between regarding human life as wondrous and sacred versus treating the unborn as so much meat fit for the garbage pile?
    Can you not communicate without adding your words to my posts? Maybe you need perspective as the million unborn are a small number compared to the 73 million children in America in 2016. I get its an intensely emotional subject for you, but I'm not as emotionally expressive or dismissive as you and I don't twist YOUR words to exaggerate your point, so stop twisting my words through your emotions.

    I ain't mad at ya because I feel your pain, but do not share it as intensely. I tend to stay focused on the little I can do to get better outcomes which I admit is inadequate given the size and scope of the problem. Hope you understand.
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    #95

    Oct 17, 2019, 08:13 AM
    The fact that we have been part and parcel in the killing of unborn children is disgusting, especially when it is often government sponsored: I really don't know of any other nation, First Word through Third World, who kills as many babies as does the United States....just cannot see where this is a record that we can be proud of.....and it amazes me that those who are ANTI-CAPITAL PUNISHMENT are, normally and simultaneously, PRO-ABRORTION: How do they reconcile this argument: You want to tell me that it is fine to kill a baby but it is a sin to kill a POS who needs to die?

    I don't want the government involved with this kind of thing: MURDER INCORPORATED: And, it is incorporated: Planned Parenthood is Government funded in large portion. Why do those that are against abortion have to also pay for it is beyond me: I guess you could call it a "TAX" like they did with the Affordable Care Act.....EVERYTHING IS O.K. as long as its a TAX, right?
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    Oct 17, 2019, 08:30 AM
    Not an entirely accurate post Vac, since the law prohits using any federal money for abortions and PP must use private donations for such activity, producing documents to that effect to get that funding. Actually abortions are but a small part of PP services that million avail themselves of.
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    Oct 17, 2019, 10:57 AM
    It is what it is,
    What an incredible conclusion to arrive at. 900,000 dead a year but, hey, it is what it is.


    Instead of perfect behavior, I can take just moving in a good direction and working to improve on the very human flaws we all have. You simply cannot control others and your efforts may effect some, but that's not enough. Fact is young children are not killed at that rate are they so don't get hyped on hypotheticals. I noticed you like to add descriptive words to mine like the use of MERELY 900,000 to my post and you need to stop that.
    You do it again, add your words to my post. I just state the facts and not casually as you say so half the problem is you not accurately representing my words. STOP IT! It is NOT a happy acceptance at all so STOP that crap!
    For a guy that claims to love facts, you sure are fast and loose with the truth. I added nothing to your post. The words you object were my characterization of your post which, though you might object to it, is my prerogative. You do it all the time.

    Actually abortions are but a small part of PP services that million avail themselves of.
    That's not true. Abortions are a major part of what PP does. As to public funding, it's just robbing Peter to pay Paul. Don't kid yourself.
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    Oct 17, 2019, 12:11 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Vacuum7 View Post
    it amazes me that those who are ANTI-CAPITAL PUNISHMENT are, normally and simultaneously, PRO-ABRORTION: How do they reconcile this argument
    it amazes me that those who are ANTI-ABORTION are, normally and simultaneously, PRO-CAPITAL PUNISHMENT: How do they reconcile this argument?
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    Oct 17, 2019, 12:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    What an incredible conclusion to arrive at. 900,000 dead a year but, hey, it is what it is.
    Unfortunately yes, that is the way it is and if you have a better idea than just talking then express yourself.

    For a guy that claims to love facts, you sure are fast and loose with the truth. I added nothing to your post. The words you object were my characterization of your post which, though you might object to it, is my prerogative. You do it all the time.
    I'll go with that rather than argue the point, but when I quote someone or copy and paste I don't add or subtract and I will let you know specifically when I characterize what you post.


    That's not true. Abortions are a major part of what PP does. As to public funding, it's just robbing Peter to pay Paul. Don't kid yourself.
    You are free to post your links or sources to back up what you say just as I do. 3% according to my link.
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    Oct 17, 2019, 12:53 PM
    it amazes me that those who are ANTI-ABORTION are, normally and simultaneously, PRO-CAPITAL PUNISHMENT: How do they reconcile this argument?
    One group is guilty of heinous crimes, generally first degree murder. The other group is the very definition of innocence. Your comment is about as silly as trying to equate opposing abortion with being in favor of self-defense. It's just a ridiculous comparison.

    But if a person opposes capital punishment and yet favors abortion, they are then in the position of defending the those guilty of terrible crimes but participating in the killing of the innocent unborn by approving of it. What do you think of that comparison? Can you defend it?


    Unfortunately yes, that is the way it is and if you have a better idea than just talking then express yourself.
    Stop voting for people who support abortion. Take a principled stand and insist that your candidates support life. But I must warn you that, as a liberal democrat, you will be distinctly in the minority.

    I'll go with that rather than argue the point, but when I quote someone or copy and paste I don't add or subtract and I will let you know specifically when I characterize what you post.
    When I quote you I do not add or subtract. If you can find where I have added to a QUOTE, then post it here. Otherwise, move on to something else.


    You are free to post your links or sources to back up what you say just as I do. 3% according to my link.
    And not even the Washington Post agrees with that number. They gave PP three pinochios for that wild tale.

    https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/...th-misleading/

    They perform more than a third of the abortions done in the U.S. They perform only slightly fewer abortions than pap smears, and 2/3 as many abortions as breast exams. Stop drinking the kool aid!!!

    https://www.nationalreview.com/2015/...ercent-figure/

    But, as you love to say, "It is what it is." And no, I did not add to your quote from Post 94. It is bad enough on its own.

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