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    #201

    Oct 22, 2019, 03:15 PM
    People don't realize they're being groomed. That's the whole point in the grooming, e.g., pedophiles grooming children toward perversive activity.
    That is completely ridiculous. An internet definition for "groomed" is this. "prepare or train (someone) for a particular purpose or activity. "star pupils who are groomed for higher things."

    So plainly the word "groomed" has no inherent idea of an unwitting participant. It CAN have that meaning, but as the example above clearly shows, it generally does not. Come on. You work in a library. Use a dictionary.

    It was done during the 2016 campaign.
    So? Trump won in 2016. Does that "guarantee" he wins in 2016? How can she make such a guarantee? Does she have some confidential info that she's leaking?

    And what, for that matter, is your evidence that Jill Stein was some kind of Russian asset? That's really a wild allegation. What proof is there other than the word of one of the two people on the earth that, to some on this board, can never be wrong?
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    #202

    Oct 22, 2019, 03:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    That is completely ridiculous. An internet definition for "groomed" is this. "prepare or train (someone) for a particular purpose or activity. "star pupils who are groomed for higher things."

    So plainly the word "groomed" has no inherent idea of an unwitting participant. It CAN have that meaning, but as the example above clearly shows, it generally does not. Come on. You work in a library. Use a dictionary.
    Thanks for the slap....That's why I rarely post here now.

    I'm a retired librarian. I've been a psychotherapist since 1991, so watch it, buddy!

    Wikipedia says: Child grooming is befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, and sometimes the family, to lower the child's inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse.[1][2] Child grooming is also regularly used to lure minors into various illicit businesses such as child trafficking, child prostitution, or the production of child pornography.[3][4][5]
    https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_grooming

    So? Trump won in 2016. Does that "guarantee" he wins in 2016? How can she make such a guarantee? Does she have some confidential info that she's leaking?
    It worked well in the 2016 election. The sheep are still grazing in tRump's meadow.

    And what, for that matter, is your evidence that Jill Stein was some kind of Russian asset? That's really a wild allegation. What proof is there other than the word of one of the two people on the earth that, to some on this board, can never be wrong?
    You must not be on Facebook, thus missed all the promo for Jill Stein. Hmmm, another slam. Do you do this in RL?
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    #203

    Oct 22, 2019, 03:57 PM
    I'm a retired librarian. I've been a psychotherapist since 1991, so watch it, buddy!
    I consider myself duly warned!

    Wikipedia says: Child grooming is befriending and establishing an emotional connection with a child, and sometimes the family, to lower the child's inhibitions with the objective of sexual abuse.[1][2] Child grooming is also regularly used to lure minors into various illicit businesses such as child trafficking, child prostitution, or the production of child pornography.[3][4][5]
    That's fine except, of course, for the fact that HC was not referring to child grooming or anything remotely resembling it. Why would you even refer to that? You might as well refer to the grooming of hair.

    It worked well in the 2016 election. The sheep are still grazing in tRump's meadow.
    You don't know if "it" worked well or not. You have no evidence that the Russkies sponsored, in any way, Jill Stein's candidacy. Yes, I'm on FB just about every day. Evidently the Russians didn't want me to vote for her.

    Now as for me giving you a "slap". When you try and suggest that HC's use of "grooming" was in the same vein that child predator's groom children, then you should have your wrist slapped. That's just a stretch that is not warranted, and I think you know that. I actually consider you to be quite intelligent, but when you make those kinds of suggestions then I'm going to call you on it. I expect you to do the same with me as you do when I said "agent" rather than "asset". Was that a slap???

    Stay in the game, WG! Get a little tough. When you need to, call me down. I know I can get a little overly excited about this. I don't mind you knocking me on the side of the head when you need to.
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    #204

    Oct 22, 2019, 03:58 PM
    That's fine except, of course, for the fact that HC was not referring to child grooming or anything remotely resembling it. Why would you even refer to that? You might as well refer to the grooming of hair.
    No HC was referring to insidious grooming as in criminals spies and espionage by foreign nations to achieve a political or economic end or advantage. WG was just giving an example of grooming with bad intent and most people can infer different scenarios of bad intent. Except you it seems. No wonder you slipped on the dufus poop!





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    #205

    Oct 22, 2019, 04:09 PM
    I say that's the silliest post of the day. Do you really think HC meant the Russians were grooming someone's yard, or grooming someone's hair, or that they were grooming a horse??? No one on the earth thought she meant that, so why would I have included such an array of completely unrelated definitions?

    As to WG's claim, do you really, really think that HC was suggesting that the Russians were preparing Jill Stein to be abused by a sexual predator? Not only that, but that definition was at the end of the list meaning it is the least used of the group.

    Come on, guys. I know you love HC dearly, but you really need to stop defending her every move as though it is completely legitimate.
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    Oct 22, 2019, 04:16 PM
    No HC was referring to insidious grooming as in criminals spies and espionage by foreign nations to achieve a political or economic end or advantage. WG was just giving an example of grooming with bad intent and most people can infer different scenarios of bad intent.
    Well of course that's what she was referring to!! That's not even in question. It's the idea that they are doing this with the unknowing participation of JS and TG that is being asserted and that is just completely unwarranted. Your definition helps none at all with that.

    And now you're saying that JS and TG are criminals!
    "as in criminals spies and espionage"
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    #207

    Oct 22, 2019, 04:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    That's fine except, of course, for the fact that HC was not referring to child grooming or anything remotely resembling it. Why would you even refer to that? You might as well refer to the grooming of hair.
    Yet you wrote, "So plainly the word 'groomed' has no inherent idea of an unwitting participant. It CAN have that meaning, but as the example above clearly shows, it generally does not. Come on. You work in a library. Use a dictionary."

    Of course, she meant it in the same way!
    You don't know if "it" worked well or not. You have no evidence that the Russkies sponsored, in any way, Jill Stein's candidacy. Yes, I'm on FB just about every day. Evidently the Russians didn't want me to vote for her.
    Yes, I know it worked. tRump won because of the presence of Russian bots and their activity to confuse the election with the electoral college.
    Now as for me giving you a "slap". When you try and suggest that HC's use of "grooming" was in the same vein that child predator's groom children, then you should have your wrist slapped. That's just a stretch that is not warranted, and I think you know that. I actually consider you to be quite intelligent, but when you make those kinds of suggestions then I'm going to call you on it. I expect you to do the same with me as you do when I said "agent" rather than "asset". Was that a slap???
    Sexual predator grooming = Russia grooming.
    Stay in the game, WG! Get a little tough. When you need to, call me down. I know I can get a little overly excited about this. I don't mind you knocking me on the side of the head when you need to.
    I'm holding back. Ask Athos for verification on that.
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    #208

    Oct 22, 2019, 04:48 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    Well of course that's what she was referring to!! That's not even in question. It's the idea that they are doing this with the unknowing participation of JS and TG that is being asserted and that is just completely unwarranted. Your definition helps none at all with that.

    And now you're saying that JS and TG are criminals!
    No I CLEARLY asserted that the ones doing the grooming are the criminals.
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    Oct 22, 2019, 05:10 PM
    No I CLEARLY asserted that the ones doing the grooming are the criminals.
    Nope. Your definition clearly said that "No HC was referring to insidious grooming as in criminals spies and espionage." It is the criminals and spies that are being groomed. Hence, TG and JS.

    Yet you wrote, "So plainly the word 'groomed' has no inherent idea of an unwitting participant. It CAN have that meaning, but as the example above clearly shows, it generally does not. Come on. You work in a library. Use a dictionary."

    Of course, she meant it in the same way!
    Well, have it your way. So HC was saying that the Russians were grooming JS and TG so they can put sexual predators on them. If anything, that's even crazier than thinking they were actively grooming them to be a third party candidate. I am so glad I am not a liberal democrat and having to defend that.

    Look. If you want to say that it is possible that HC meant the Russkies are clandestinely arranging things to encourage the possibility of TG running as a third party candidate, then that's fine. I think it is extremely unlikely and it would be a real shot in the dark for them, but yeah, it's possible. But to suggest that you KNOW that she meant that, then you've got an enormous credibility problem. You cannot possibly know that for sure and HC has not suggested that meaning is accurate.

    As to your supposed evidence of the Russians supporting Jill Stein's third party being Trump's win in 2016, then does the dems winning the House in 2018 also qualify as evidence for Russians supporting Nancy Pelosi and the House dems?

    I really think you are smarter than this.
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    #210

    Oct 22, 2019, 05:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    Where did your post go?
    #204.
    Well, have it your way. HC was saying that the Russians were grooming JS and TG so they can put sexual predators on them. If anything, that's even crazier than thinking they were actively grooming them to be a third party candidate. I am so glad I am not a liberal democrat and having to defend that.
    Have you eaten anything today? Your brain is missing nutrients. As a mom-type, I'm starting to worry about you.
    As to your supposed evidence of the Russians supporting Jill Stein's third party being Trump's win in 2016, then does the dems winning the House in 2018 also qualify as evidence for Russians supporting Nancy Pelosi and the House dems?
    Just change the subject, why doncha.
    I really think you are smarter than this.
    When in doubt, insult.
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    Oct 22, 2019, 05:30 PM
    I wasn't looking for your post. I was looking for Tal's.

    Have you eaten anything today? Your brain is missing nutrients. As a mom-type, I'm starting to worry about you.
    I'm afraid that not eating is not a problem of mine. Kind of wish it was.

    As to your supposed evidence of the Russians supporting Jill Stein's third party being Trump's win in 2016, then does the dems winning the House in 2018 also qualify as evidence for Russians supporting Nancy Pelosi and the House dems?
    Just change the subject, why doncha.
    Now that's what I'm talking about with you being smarter than this. I think you know I did not change the subject. I simply challenged your thinking. If Trump winning is your evidence of Russian influence, then why isn't the dems winning the House evidence of Russian interference?


    When in doubt, insult.
    It was no more an insult than your food/brain comment was. I do think you are smarter than some of your conclusions would indicate.
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    #212

    Oct 22, 2019, 05:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I wasn't looking for your post. I was looking for Tal's.
    It's not mine. It's Tal's. Hmmm, what would you say to a student who hadn't checked?
    I'm afraid that not eating is not a problem of mine. Kind of wish it was.
    Are you a bit fluffy, more to love?
    Now that's what I'm talking about with you being smarter than this. I think you know I did not change the subject. I simply challenged your thinking. If Trump winning is your evidence of Russian influence, then why isn't the dems winning the House evidence of Russian interference?
    Don't get me started correcting your grammar. And you deliberately changed the subject. We weren't finished with the topic on the table.
    It was no more an insult than your food/brain comment was. I do think you are smarter than some of your conclusions would indicate.
    I've been a Mensan for years, actually all my life. And no, I cushioned the food comment so it wasn't an insult. Wanna hear me insult you?
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    Oct 22, 2019, 05:54 PM
    Hmm, maybe the Russians did help the dems win back the House. But the bi partisan Senate Intell commitee report backs up the Mueller Report. If repubs and dems agree shouldn't we ALL at least PAY ATTENTION?

    BREAKING NEWS!

    Ambassador to Ukraine Bill Taylor testified on Capitol Hill!*

    *Taylors opening statement included in link.
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    Oct 22, 2019, 06:05 PM
    you a bit fluffy, more to love?
    My doc today told me to lost five or ten pounds.

    Don't get me started correcting your grammar. And you deliberately changed the subject. We weren't finished with the topic on the table.
    OK. Have it your way. Finish the topic.

    I've been a Mensan for years, actually all my life. And no, I cushioned the food comment so it wasn't an insult. Wanna hear me insult you?
    I'm impressed...slightly. I bear up under insults quite well. It always tells me that the person has run out of logical arguments and has decided to become offensive.
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    Oct 22, 2019, 06:14 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    OK. Have it your way. Finish the topic.
    Tal is helping.
    I'm impressed...slightly. I bear up under insults quite well. It always tells me that the person has run out of logical arguments and has decided to become offensive.
    'Twon't be me.
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    Oct 22, 2019, 06:20 PM
    Tal is helping.
    I try to never count on someone else to do my work for me.

    'Twon't be me.
    Right.

    BREAKING NEWS!

    ​Ambassador to Ukraine Bill Taylor testified on Capitol Hill!*

    *Taylors opening statement included in link.
    Unsurprisingly, democrat lawmakers said that, in private testimony, the ambassador said that he heard that someone else had suggested that the President wanted Ukraine to investigate the Ukrainian gas company and possible interference in the 2016 election. If they did not, then he heard that someone else had said that all those military thingies the Ukrainians wanted might not be delivered on time.

    In the meantime, Ukrainian officials continue to deny that any quid pro quo existed. Hmmm.

    There is a large mound of nothing that has accumulated about this case, and today's testimony added even more nothing to it.
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    #217

    Oct 22, 2019, 06:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I try to never count on someone else to do my work for me.
    Aren't we all working together here? We be a team?
    Right.
    'Twon't be me.
    ...who runs out of logical arguments.
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    #218

    Oct 22, 2019, 06:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I try to never count on someone else to do my work for me.



    Right.



    Unsurprisingly, democrat lawmakers said that, in private testimony, the ambassador said that he heard that someone else had suggested that the President wanted Ukraine to investigate the Ukrainian gas company and possible interference in the 2016 election. If they did not, then he heard that someone else had said that all those military thingies the Ukrainians wanted might not be delivered on time.

    In the meantime, Ukrainian officials continue to deny that any quid pro quo existed. Hmmm.

    There is a large mound of nothing that has accumulated about this case, and today's testimony added even more nothing to it.
    He named names and had emails and phone records, but go ahead, ignore, dismiss, and harp on old right wing loony conspiracy theories. What else should we expect from you?
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    #219

    Oct 22, 2019, 06:41 PM
    Aren't we all working together here? We be a team?
    Right.
    ...who runs out of logical arguments.
    I'm still waiting on you to make one. You said I was changing the subject, so I'm waiting on you to continue the conversation with rational, logical arguments. Hopefully it will be something more substantial than trying to convince me that HC really believes the Russians were setting up TG for a sexual predator.

    He named names and had emails and phone records, but go ahead, ignore, dismiss, and harp on old right wing loony conspiracy theories. What else should we expect from you?
    You know the details of what was said in a private deposition? From what I have read, it is just more of he said/she said. At some point you have to come up with real evidence. In the meantime, Ukrainian officials continue to say...well, you know.
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    #220

    Oct 22, 2019, 06:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I'm still waiting on you to make one. You said I was changing the subject, so I'm waiting on you to continue the conversation with rational, logical arguments. Hopefully it will be something more substantial than trying to convince me that HC really believes the Russians were setting up TG for a sexual predator.
    That makes absolutely no sense. Whatchu bin readin', Willis???

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