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    Sep 15, 2019, 05:15 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    Evasive as always. You dodged the question. Disappointing. Courage is required here.

    As to businesses, I started two. Neither was successful.
    Why are you obsessed with Obama? At least you don't mention Hillary in every post now, thank goodness.

    Mine were successful in that I served the needs of many. And no, I didn't make tons of money. My businesses were in the business of helping children succeed and helping adults get back on their feet.
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    Sep 15, 2019, 05:57 PM
    Why are you obsessed with Obama? At least you don't mention Hillary in every post now, thank goodness.
    Very disappointing that you won't answer such a simple question. My obsession, if you want to call it that, is with applying moral standards consistently, and I had hoped you would. Still, everyone gets to make their own choices, so that's fine.

    Hope everyone has a good evening.
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    Sep 15, 2019, 06:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    Very disappointing that you won't answer such a simple question. My obsession, if you want to call it that, is with applying moral standards consistently, and I had hoped you would. Still, everyone gets to make their own choices, so that's fine.

    Hope everyone has a good evening.
    I'm obsessed with Obama? I've rarely mentioned him and only in response to you. You must have me confused with someone else.

    Oh, yeah. It's bedtime in your neck of the woods. Sleep tight!
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    Sep 15, 2019, 06:43 PM
    I'm obsessed with Obama? I've rarely mentioned him and only in response to you.
    I don't know if you are obsessed with him or not. I asked a simple question which you consistently refuse to answer. I think I know why.
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    Sep 15, 2019, 07:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I don't know if you are obsessed with him or not. I asked a simple question which you consistently refuse to answer. I think I know why.
    I thought you went to bed.

    You know why I REFUSE to answer? Pray tell why. And I have never extolled his virtues here.

    Go, Bill Weld, go!!!!
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    Sep 15, 2019, 08:01 PM
    Donald Trump, as a businessman, tended to perform his tasks as a businessman, not an investor! He chose to gamble more boldly than those that play with damn Index Funds! As a businessman, a builder, a developer, he put people to work....a lot of people! And, you know what, he has continued putting people to work as POTUS: In fact, he has put one hell of a lot of people. Now, Trump is no saint....and I, myself, am not a saint, either.

    But to those that choose to go boldly into the world as Trump has, to those that don't play it safe, to those that show some moxie to go out there and put it all on the line, to those that WORK WITHOUT A NET, I must admire those people: When Obama falsely said "YOU DIDN'T BUILD THAT". I say: Oh yeah, look at Trump! He built it and he was shrewd enough to grow it.

    What is it with the left and their continual TEARING DOWN of men of accomplishment? Are all rich men evil? Or only select rich men? What makes a man inherently evil because he made money in his profession? I am not into condemning people who succeed. And I am TOTALLY AGAINST condemning SELECT people who succeed. Why isn't the left condemning ALL people who succeed or who are rich? Why isn't the left condemning the Cooks, Gates, Buffets, Bloombergs, and damned SOROS? Its because they have a narrative to fill and a "SELECT" group of rich are chosen, those from the RIGHT, to fill the narrative!
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    Sep 15, 2019, 09:06 PM
    I'm a registered Republican, V7.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 06:36 AM
    You know why I REFUSE to answer? Pray tell why. And I have never extolled his virtues here.
    At least you are acknowledging that you refuse to answer. I guess that's progress of some sort.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 06:44 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Vacuum7 View Post
    Donald Trump, as a businessman, tended to perform his tasks as a businessman, not an investor! He chose to gamble more boldly than those that play with damn Index Funds! As a businessman, a builder, a developer, he put people to work....a lot of people! And, you know what, he has continued putting people to work as POTUS: In fact, he has put one hell of a lot of people. Now, Trump is no saint....and I, myself, am not a saint, either.

    But to those that choose to go boldly into the world as Trump has, to those that don't play it safe, to those that show some moxie to go out there and put it all on the line, to those that WORK WITHOUT A NET, I must admire those people: When Obama falsely said "YOU DIDN'T BUILD THAT". I say: Oh yeah, look at Trump! He built it and he was shrewd enough to grow it.

    What is it with the left and their continual TEARING DOWN of men of accomplishment? Are all rich men evil? Or only select rich men? What makes a man inherently evil because he made money in his profession? I am not into condemning people who succeed. And I am TOTALLY AGAINST condemning SELECT people who succeed. Why isn't the left condemning ALL people who succeed or who are rich? Why isn't the left condemning the Cooks, Gates, Buffets, Bloombergs, and damned SOROS? Its because they have a narrative to fill and a "SELECT" group of rich are chosen, those from the RIGHT, to fill the narrative!
    The left has nothing against rich guys, we just know a lot more about HOW they got rich and stayed that way so we don't just lavish praise and wild eyed adulations on them for simply being aggressive and ruthlessly focused on pursuits of wealth. None of them are saints so why sit them atop a pedestal and worship at the alter?

    One need only go back to the start of the industrial age and see how it was actually built to know the REAL toll on humans who did the work that made those profits. You could probably relate from your own experience with the worker/boss relationship to glean an understanding how big Biz works. I don't see how that reality can be put aside to whole endorse some of those tactics and strategies that puts workers so far down the respect scale and markets those rich guys as gods to be worshipped and obeyed.

    As auto workers are on strike at least acknowledge the struggles the ordinary people face still. Or at least look around at your fellow workers who have been beat down after years of toil, who make you engineer types look good, and the boss rich. Obviously I wasn't ALWAYS an engineer type, nor EVER lost my appreciation for those day in day out REAL workers.

    You know, the ones who fought for years to be able to take a shower AFTER work.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 06:53 AM
    The left has nothing against rich guys, we just know a lot more about HOW they got rich and stayed that way
    I don't think most liberals have any idea of how people become rich. Most of them do it through long days, hard work, and working smart.

    As auto workers are on strike at least acknowledge the struggles the ordinary people face still. Or at least look around at your fellow workers who have been beat down after years of toil, who make you engineer types look good, and the boss rich. Obviously I wasn't ALWAYS an engineer type, nor EVER lost my appreciation for those day in day out REAL workers.
    It is interesting to me how most liberals seem to think that they are the only ones who ever had to struggle. My wife and I pinched pennies for many years. She was a part-time bookkeeper and full-time mom. I was a school teacher and worked part-time at Walmart. We knew quite well what it was like to struggle. Most conservatives I know would say the same thing.

    You talk about "beaten down fellow workers" in the same paragraph as auto workers? You mean the ones who retire at 60 with nice pensions?
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    Sep 16, 2019, 07:17 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jlisenbe View Post
    I don't think most liberals have any idea of how people become rich. Most of them do it through long days, hard work, and working smart.
    Obviously YOU don't know either, and as always my conservative right wing friend, fall back on those old divisive talking points. I don't expect you to know the laws and loopholes made for the rich guys, but sad you don't find those answers for yourself being the hard working person you are, before you claim what liberals don't know.

    I have already given you a clue posts ago in another thread about tax breaks to allow companies to mitigate the costs of closing American plants and build new ones in other counties. If you followed that up you could be rather surprised how much you DON'T know.

    It is interesting to me how most liberals seem to think that they are the only ones who ever had to struggle. My wife and I pinched pennies for many years. She was a part-time bookkeeper and full-time mom. I was a school teacher and worked part-time at Walmart. We knew quite well what it was like to struggle. Most conservatives I know would say the same thing.

    You talk about "beaten down fellow workers" in the same paragraph as auto workers? You mean the ones who retire at 60 with nice pensions?
    There you go again with that liberals meme again when ALL of us know about hard work and struggle pinching pennies, and working more than one job for most our adult lives and why begrudges those auto workers their hard work and EARNED benefits? Did they not take pay cuts and reduced benefits when the company was struggling? May be you should look that up before you put them down.

    I continue to wonder how such a smart hard working fellow like you could be so ill informed, but so radically critical.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 07:32 AM
    There you go again with that liberals meme again when ALL of us know about hard work and struggle pinching pennies, and working more than one job for most our adult lives and why begrudges those auto workers their hard work and EARNED benefits?
    All of us know? I would agree with that. I thought that was what I was saying. Your original comment was to the effect that only liberals experience that.

    Did they not take pay cuts and reduced benefits when the company was struggling? May be you should look that up before you put them down.

    I continue to wonder how such a smart hard working fellow like you could be so ill informed, but so radically critical.
    If you are trying to get me to feel sorry for UAW members, you'll need to work a lot harder.

    As to the discussion of wealthy people, your original comment was, "we don't just lavish praise and wild eyed adulation on them for simply being aggressive and ruthlessly focused on pursuits of wealth." I like to point out that most wealthy people I know are not "ruthlessly focused on the pursuit of wealth". You make it sound like they are all a bunch of immoral crooks. I was objecting to that caricature. If you want to point out tax breaks which should not be there, then fine, but it's the idea that all wealthy people are crooks that is wrong.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 10:08 AM
    Your perception of what I wrote is as usual far short of my actual words in both cases of rich people, and UAW workers. Don't know how to correct that, and it's dificult to debate such complex issues, while having to explain the focus and the nuances you don't seem to grasps at first read. I'll try to clear that up in the future, but must add that I get the impression union workers are held in disdain by you. Am I right?
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    Sep 16, 2019, 10:41 AM
    but must add that I get the impression union workers are held in disdain by you. Am I right?
    To quote Tal, "Your perception of what I wrote is as usual far short of my actual words.. Don't know how to correct that, and it's difficult to debate such complex issues, while having to explain the focus and the nuances you don't seem to grasps at first read. I'll try to clear that up in the future." In other words, I didn't say a negative word about the UAW. I simply said I don't feel sorry for them. That is a million miles away from disdaining them.

    As to my perceptions of your views supposedly falling far short, I'll just quote your earlier statement yet again. "we don't just lavish praise and wild eyed adulation on them for simply being aggressive and ruthlessly focused on pursuits of wealth."

    Now you feel free to explain the "focus and nuances" of that statement, especially the underlined part, that I don't seem to get. If you are saying that, at times, people have indeed been ruthless in their pursuit of wealth, then we can certainly agree on that statement, but you seem to be saying that such a ruthless pursuit of wealth is typical of all wealthy people. Now that would include the Clintons and Obamas who are all quite wealthy, and I know for certain you are not making a negative reference to them, so I can hardly believe that that is what you meant.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 11:43 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    ...and it's dificult to debate such complex issues, while having to explain the focus and the nuances you don't seem to grasps at first read. I'll try to clear that up in the future,...
    You're not the only one with that problem. He seems to see things in a kind of literal surface way. It's tiresome to have to keep explaining.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 11:46 AM
    That is why I asked about what I took as disdain toward union workers because you didn't feel sorry for them just to clarify MY understanding of your words. I didn't want to assume even if I appeared judgemental, or overly provative. Just my way as you already know, but nothing PERSONAL intended. In full disclosure I am a union worker and been through many concessionary contracts with the company when they were hit with hard times and foregone with wage hikes for benefits and conditions.

    If I sounded EMPATHETIC to my union brothers it's from a shared understanding of their situation. Yeah rich guys almost have to be ruthless and if you had peeps working during those early days of industry, they would agree with the lousy conditions and tactics they went through, and yes I am from a VERY long line of those kinds of workers.

    No I didn't wait until 60 to take those nice retirement benefits because I started pretty darn early in a steel mill. Still pinched pennies and worked extra jobs. Just like the rest of my peeps. I know hard work as well as you do for sure. I have much empathy for hard HONEST workers that never took the penitentiary short cut.

    Empathy is not the same as feeling sorry or having pity! Especially if you have been there and done that.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 02:58 PM
    No I didn't wait until 60 to take those nice retirement benefits because I started pretty darn early in a steel mill. Still pinched pennies and worked extra jobs. Just like the rest of my peeps. I know hard work as well as you do for sure. I have much empathy for hard HONEST workers that never took the penitentiary short cut.
    I feel the same way. Well said!!

    I retired at 64 only because I had basically run out of gas. I no longer had the energy to do my job the way it needed to be done. I don't regret it. God had other things for me so I'm good to go.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 04:09 PM
    I left the mills at 48, burned out to be quite honest, but I have to tell you that my next job was the best one I could hope for, changing diapers and cooking for my grandson, and new baby girl grand daughter while the wife and daughter worked. They are pretty self sufficient now, but call the old guy often, which is a thrill in itself. I count my blessings DAILY, and am grateful as all get out for the success I have had and all those young people who thanked me for the love and effort to show them a good path. Some worked out better than others and lost a few heartbreakers along the way, so forgive me if I'm hardcore and unyielding sometimes as I have seen a lot of the best and worse of us.

    I just want a world my kids and theirs can have the chance to survive and thrive. Is that asking too much? Don't answer, the old bones still have some push in them, and the least I can do is do what was done for me by MY peeps. They never quit and never gave up. I don't intend to do less.

    I look forward to trading stories and butting heads my friend, and if they dare laugh at two old guffs rolling in the grass, that their problem, not ours.
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    Sep 16, 2019, 04:21 PM
    I just want a world my kids and theirs can have the chance to survive and thrive. Is that asking too much? Don't answer, the old bones still have some push in them, and the least I can do is do what was done for me by MY peeps. They never quit and never gave up. I don't intend to do less.
    I think we have that world now, but I understand what you're saying. I have two kids in their early 30's and one step-son who is 42. That's why I hate deficit spending. That's why I hate the prevailing attitude on waiting to fix Social Security until it's hopelessly broken. And like you, I honor my parents, though they are both with the Lord now. My dad's first real job was working 65 hours a week for 12 bucks, so I don't think I have the option of complaining and whining. Truth is, we really have it good. I think you would agree with that.

    I look forward to trading stories and butting heads my friend, and if they dare laugh at two old guffs rolling in the grass, that their problem, not ours.
    That made me laugh. It has to happen someday!!

    BTW, when do you plan on doing something about this blasted hot weather???
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    Sep 16, 2019, 05:25 PM
    Gentlemen, and Wondergirl: Nice see that our differences are mendable.....nothing we say on here is meant to hurt anyone's feelings and I think we are all "passionate" about what we believe and what we say. This wonderful politics stuff is something else: It always brings the best, or worst, out in people.....and its guaranteed to be entertaining. The U.S. is still an experiment and the experiment works pretty well.....I think we are way ahead of the curve compared to anyone else in this old world....but that doesn't mean that we know it all or shouldn't co-op a good idea and implement it as our own if it comes along.

    I am not in "awe" of the rich but I do respect their personal drive.....its admirable. I am in "awe" of something, though: The debating skills of the ladies and gentlemen on this site! Do you realize this is better than being in Toastmasters! You guys are incredible! And you defend your positions like nobody's business!

    I do feel the sense of urgency about not allowing anyone on the planet "beat us" by whatever description that entails: The U.S. doesn't survive a getting beat"/failure scenario: There are a BUNCH of people and nations out there that don't want us to survive and will go to any lengths to end us.....Winning, for us, ensures survival as a nation....failure is not an option.

    Let me make this very clear: I have ALL THE RESPECT IN THIS WORLD FOR BLUE COLLAR WORKERS, Union or no Union. I have admiration for this breed...my Daddy was a professional Welder and he toiled and tasked like there was no tomorrow! Man never took a vacation and inspired me to no end! I consider myself no better than anyone and, in fact, much lesser than quite a few! I have to work with both Union and non-Union and I know hard work, as well, and, I can tell you this: These people work like hell! I maybe have known a couple of legitimate slackers in my going on 31 years in the industry.....and, believe me, the slackers will end up weeding themselves out: Nobody puts up with it, including fellow members.....By and large, I have found the Unions police themselves quite well: If someone/some worker is a bum, the Union is less inclined to back them up or is certainly not enthusiastic about backing them up. By and large, I have found Union workers to be pretty patriotic about buying American, which is another subject near and dear to me. Unions do tend to be bureaucratic as heck, so they need some refining in that arena, if you ask me.

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