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Aslam u Alikum
I'm interested in a boy, but he got married n have a kid, he was forced to get married, after a month he has moved to Dubai, he doesn't talks to his wife , nor his parents, he was actually pressured to do so, he belongs to a typical sindhi family, he loves me n wants to get married to me, per meanwhile no one os aggred at my side, everyone is making me explain that this is not the right option, how can u destroy someone home n be happy, but the people who support me are like if u're not with him, phr bhi us ka ghar Toota he ha, it's not because of you, I want to marry him, In fact we both but my family is even very strict it's very hard for them to accept, n I'm going crazy crying every time
What should I do, please help

[Alty]

Since this is under religion, specifically Islam, is divorce allowed? It's a very strict religion that doesn't even allow common every day things that most people would never consider a sin, but even people that don't believe in any God frown on divorce. So is divorce allowed in Islam, because he'd have to get a divorce if he wants to marry you.

[talaniman]

You should listen to the wise counsel of your family, and NOT your foolish heart.

[afaroo]

I am very very sorry to say that in Islam a man can marry up to four wives at the same time if he can treat them equally which I haven't heard of any one that they have done so, in your case I would not suggest to marry him he will use and abuse you like his present wife, just listen to your family, Thanks

[smoothy]

I have a good Muslim friend who's mother was the first of 4 wives her father has now... if he takes a second, nothing stops him from a 3rd or 4rth when he tires of you... and no, they don't get treated anywhere near equally... but in a culture and location that allows that (there aren't many in the world that allow much less tolerate polygamy), you as a female really have little rights to say or do anything. If he does this with first wife..he will do it with you too eventually.