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    Aug 31, 2015, 01:26 AM
    My 13 year old friend is having sex with his 13 year old girlfriend. What do I do?
    My 13 year old friend has a 13 year old girlfriend and she isn't really in the right mind. She thinks every girl aims to be a slut and that in this world a girl is either a slut or a nerd. And she likes being a slut. And well him and his girlfriend are having sex at the age of 13. I don't know why he is even dating her, I would try to break up the relationship but I don't want to lose my friend that I've known since forever. What do I do? Please help me
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    Aug 31, 2015, 01:29 AM
    How is this any of your business !!
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    Aug 31, 2015, 02:38 AM
    Friends do care about each other, and you care about the guy (the girl is none of your business). So warn him about pregnancy. There's a lot more, but that's the biggie for now. Condoms fail all the time. Pulling out fails all the time. Parents get extremely upset, and rightly so. Even if he is too young for statutory rape charges, he can get in enormous amounts of trouble, whether she gets pregnant or not. TELL HIM but don't dwell on it. If you lose him, so be it - many teens lose their best friends anyway when sex takes over.
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    Aug 31, 2015, 07:17 AM
    Tell your friend what he is doing is stupid and leave it alone. What the girl does is none of your business and don't do the petty thing and spread gossip about her.
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    Aug 31, 2015, 07:43 AM
    I can understand your concerns, what friend wouldn't be. Express yourself honestly,tell him he should keep condoms to protect himself then back out of his business. You can't control him, or her, just yourself so don't sink to petty.
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    Sep 18, 2015, 06:53 PM
    Two 13 year olds having sex is indeed a huge concern, but not one that can be handled by another 13 year old. You're simply too young to deal with this, as are they.

    Any advice that will stop these two from doing what they're doing, will likely result in you losing the friendship.
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    Sep 18, 2015, 07:07 PM
    In answer to the OP's question, the only thing you can really do is explain to your friend the consequences that are involved, such as pregnancy. He may think it is fun for now, however, when he accidentally gets her pregnant, it won't be as much fun.

    I do agree with Homegirl 50, do not spread anything about the girl involved.

    Good luck!
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    Sep 18, 2015, 08:13 PM
    This may be just talk, but eventually they'll get caught if they really are having sex. Sorry you have to deal with this. Hopefully they can talk to a trusted adult and learn about teenage pregnancy.
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