[fenderstrummer28]

Hey everyone,

I'm having a bit of a problem. My girlfriend broke up with me about 3 weeks ago and I'm really having a hard time about it. I mean we still see each other at school but we don't talk that much anymore. I'm starting to realize that I'm really depressed over this and I know I shouldn't be, but I really, really, really want her back but I don't know if she feels the same. What really depresses me is that I think she wants to date her ex- boyfriend and I can't seem to get over it.

Can someone please give me some advice?

[chuff]

It sounds like she was using you as a back up plan until either the other guy came around or to make him jealous. She doesn't sound like someone that should be in your life or you should be around.

[talaniman]

As hard as it is to accept that its over, you must and get a life that makes you happy doing the things you enjoy. It takes time, and if you stay busy and leave her and her life alone, things will get better.