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    Jun 3, 2014, 08:28 PM
    Should I stay out of my boyfriends group of friends?
    So my boyfriend recently made a new group of friends and we both went camping with them this weekend and we all kind of bonded. Now he wants me to go to a party that they are throwing this Friday. Did I mention I'm the only girl in the whole group? And now on Facebook they were posting all these statuses and tagging him in it about the weekend but I wasn't tagged. Like it was like I wasn't even there. I know it may sound pathetic but if you think about it, it almost seems as though they don't consider me part of their group even though I hung out with them just as much as my boyfriend did. They don't seem to have a problem with me but I'm not sure if I'm even welcomed or should even bother going to hangout with them. Anyway should I let my boyfriend just hangout with them or should I keep tagging along?
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    Jun 3, 2014, 09:07 PM
    Well they are all guys, maybe that is why they don't see you as part of the group. Let him hang with his guy friends. Why would you even want to tag along?
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    Jun 3, 2014, 11:52 PM
    Homegirl! Is right and I wound like to add more things here,' even though you have a bond with your boy friend's friends but still for them first you are their'' friend's girlfriend'' then a ''friend'', so may be they are kind of respecting those spaces! So, don't worry and if you are invited or if you are comfortable you can go with your boyfriend to hangout with his friends.
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    Jun 4, 2014, 01:20 PM
    Because I can have guy friends? Lol they're nice and everything haha
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    Jun 4, 2014, 01:46 PM
    Nothing wrong with having guy friends but his friends may not want to hang with him and his girlfriend all the time. Why do you tag along, don't you have a life and friends apart from him?
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    Jun 8, 2014, 09:06 AM
    For the record, you are 15, and he is 18, and while your mom lets you do as you please your dad has objections as any dad of a 15 year old would if his daughter were hanging with a group of grown guys that are probably graduated. NO, a 15 year old should NOT be hanging out with a group of grown guys.

    Not even when she turns 16!!
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    Jun 8, 2014, 09:12 AM
    I'm with Talani on this one. After having read this I know exactly why your dad has problems with your wanting to date this guy. My parents would never have let me go camping (at 15 or 16) with a group of guys over 18. Nor would I let any of my kids! Why not find a guy your age? With friends your age?
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    Jun 8, 2014, 02:59 PM
    The whole thing is inappropriate. You should not be dating a guy that age and you surely should not be camping with a group of older guys.
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