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    alexjenn Posts: 16, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Apr 3, 2007, 04:12 PM
    So frustrated
    OK I am very frustrated I am trying to get preggy on #3 and I can't seem to get it , we have sex when I have the "dicharge and we calcuate all around the ouvalting dates and even when it is not , we dont ahve sex evey day so "he can build up" i am just getting nervous , i know we can do it thats a fact , my peiord is due in 6 days and i took a test today it was negative i know it could still be early , i also have been having weird dreams about taking preggy tests and them being neg as well i guess because it is on my mind , but not constanly , im so worked up inside , i had a miscarriage in may 2006 and it is making me think i am "broken now , does anyone have and e advice?? :eek: :( :mad: :( :confused: :o
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    Apr 3, 2007, 04:19 PM
    Stop stressing. Stress of any kind does strange things to your body. Including making it hard to conceive.

    You know all those gals, like teens, who get pregnant the first time, or are surprised that they are pregnant? That is because they are not "trying"

    I know, relaxing is easier said than done. But it is important.
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    Apr 3, 2007, 04:24 PM
    Hey, Take a deep breath! It will happen when it happens! I know how you feel I was dignosed with Endometriosis and I have horribel overian cysts! And I feel that if I can't concive a child that there is something wrong with me! I used to get so worked up about it! I would cry for hours and hours! But in truth that doesn't do any good! You just have to relax I know most couples don't concive when they are "trying" it usually happens when they least expect it! If you can afford it go on a vacation so you both can unwind! I wish you luck! In your baby making hehe!
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    Apr 4, 2007, 08:36 AM
    Since you are so wound up,and worrying that you are " broken" I would really suggest you go visit with your doctor. Get a pre-conception check up and make sure everything is in order. They can talk to you about your previous miscarriage, give you facts, and help to rid you of your fears. Getting that clean bill of health is always a good stress reliever. Good luck and best wishes

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