He hasn't stopped because he hasn't hit rock bottom yet.
Do you provide a roof over his head?
Do you provide him with food? Money?
If the answer to any of these questions is "yes." You are enabling him. I see that he has been in rehab, but the bigger question is were you and your wife in counseling while he was in rehab? It is extremely important that not only the addict get help, but the family as well.
Your wife specifically needs some help in dealing with this. Being a "screamer" is no excuse. She needs to learn to table her temper as she is most likely pushing him toward the drug with her actions.
The two of you need not only to have an intervention, but consequences. He needs to find another place to live unless he is in recovery. Don't provide him money, don't allow him in your home unless he is in recovery, etc.
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