[diya]

I always tell people and friends just one thing... and that is if you really feel you deserve something then u must go for it or someone you deserve but after several trials u feel you're not getting it... then leave it for awhile.. if it comes back to you it was meant to be yours... in the heart of hearts you know he's playing games, then STOP fibbing yourself and think it this way... it's his bad luck that he didn't deserve your sincerity... it's hard to move on but let me tell it's not impossible... try it... when he comes in your thoughts.. brush it away as you would do to a dried leaf...

[hair2007]

I always tell people and friends just one thing...and that is if you really feel you deserve something then u must go for it or someone you deserve but after several trials u feel you're not getting it...then leave it for awhile..if it comes back to you it was meant to be yours...in the heart of hearts you know he's playing games, then STOP fibbing yourself and think it this way...it's his bad luck that he didn't deserve your sincerity....it's hard to move on but let me tell it's not impossible...try it....when he comes in your thoughts..brush it away as you would do to a dried leaf.......

Exactly... lol... I like the dried leaf theory... but yes you are right. I have tried it many times and let him go he has come back many times only to end up saying the same things. Its funnt because I had an old cell phone from last year that I happened to charge up to give to a friend to use and in it was a text from last year (march also) that said almost the same crap about him not knowing if he is coming or going in life and I deserve to be happy since then he has been back at least 3-4 times... he is a selfish jerk who always keeps me on the back burner... pethetic of him and me... working on it though... lol.. thanks

[diya]

Oh you're welcome... and also remember " Anyone who keeps you his option and not Priority... doesn't deserve to be in your life... He is a habitual offender and you need to decide what your priorities are in your life... take care and be strong...

[hair2007]

oh you're welcome...and also remember " Anyone who keeps you his option and not Priority....doesn't deserve to be in your life.....He is a habitual offender and you need to decide what your priorities are in your life...take care and be strong...

Thank again... [ ;

[SAB123]

your are right, at least thats how it seems.. he is on a dating service that he signed up for right before this last time he wanted me back, which he said he went on before coming back to me, which he has done before by the way. .....such bull sh--! he must have gotten a good response recently and thats why he sent me the yr to good for me text.... imagine wanting someone back every 2-3 months yet in between sampling dating services???lol... when i re-read my own posts, i actualy get embarresed that ive put up with his crap and lies...
someone had said commitment phobic, sorry but i dont go for that either its either there or not and if its not then just admit it an stop the selfish game...thanks for responding...and sorry, had to vent..again.. lol...

My Ex fiancé has signed up on dating service rite after a break up. It hurts see someone you care for on their. But this time I signed up to let her know how it feels and do know for a fact she didn't like that. And I also feel embarresed when I reread my thread and deep down still want her back.

[hair2007]

My Ex fiance has signed up on dating service rite after a break up. It hurts see someone you care for on their. But this time I signed up to let her know how it feels and do know for a fact she didn't like that. And I also feel embarresed when I reread my thread and deep down still want her back.

She's on a dating service? That kills me, only because he has done it before too, and its like it didn't turn up any good results so that's why he called me!! lol... are they looking for something else? That's so sad, for us and them. They had us right in front of them yet they go looking in a dating site... wow... talk about using me, and keeping someone on the back burner.

[loveme1]

hi everyone,

venting again..after telling the ex i will not be part of the games he plays with me any more, coming in and out of my life every 3 months, saying he needs me, wants to grow old with me and all other great things only to end up saying and doing all the opposite..

well, after telling him this, he sends me a text message the next day to say... your a beautiful, generous, loyal, and unbelievable person, and u deserve the best. i have to many issues to give you the best. dont think i dont love you. when i think of what im missing without you in my life i know i am crazy...

i guess my questions are, why does he always try and come back, only to end up not meaning it? why did he text me that? if he truly felt those things, he wouldnt play these games. can't say for sure but if he will probably call again in 3 months. its happened quite a few times....

i guess im having a bad day today because normaly im pretty much ok with realizing i need to move on....

Do u think he love u