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    mogrann Posts: 860, Reputation: 193
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    Dec 6, 2013, 08:43 PM
    Fed up with devils advocate
    I have had it. Posts I make on Facebook have had one friend comment on them and twist it around. Yes for most things there are circumstances that can change a situation but please stop trying to cause issues. I am tired of deleting posts due to my anxiety and inability to say stop it. I am such a wimp and not happy with myself.
    Don't know what to do what is the skillful way to handle this? Do I just unfriend? Do I hide posts from this person? Do I just ignore them and let resentment build? Confrontation is NOT an option
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    Dec 6, 2013, 09:40 PM
    What is the best thing you've found to do with people who are toxic in your life? Then, if you unfriend them, are you any poorer without them?

    (a big hug to Owen)
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    mogrann Posts: 860, Reputation: 193
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    Dec 7, 2013, 06:46 AM
    Owen says just send warmer weather she makes me go outside to the bathroom it is not fair :P

    I do not deal with people at all. I tend to ignore the problem. My interpersonal skills suck as I detest conflict. I would feel guilt if I unfriend them.
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    Dec 7, 2013, 07:52 AM
    On mornings like this, I'm glad for indoor bathrooms. Maybe Santa will bring you a warn coat, Owen. Or a small grass potty area for indoors. My cats will send you clean litter if you promise to use it.

    Ignoring might be the best thing to do then. More guilt you don't need. Arguing or continuing to argue isn't helpful at all to anyone. At least our animals love us unconditionally! (even when they have to go outside to potty in the cold)

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