[Dance07]

Okay I'm in 6th grade and I'm dating this boy (we're not that serious) we just talk hold hands normal cheesy stuff but lately he keeps telling me he wants to have sex in high school and get me pregnant I don't know what to do because I'm an all A student I'm in G.A.T.E (gifted and talented education) and I told him I don't want to be a teen mom that we won't be ready for something like that anytime soon until were like 25 and we probably won't even be together any more by that age but he won't listen what should I do?

[ScottGem]

First, do your parents know you are dating? In 6th grade you are 11,12? That is too young to be dating even the "cheesy stuff" you are describing as dating.

Clearly he is too immature for dating. You, on the other hand, sound rather mature for your age. Frankly, I would tell this boy that he needs to grow up. While talking about sex is not abnormal for an adolescent, he would appear to be too obsessed with it. The next time he brings up the subject, walk away.

[hkstroud]

You are very smart, he is very dumb. Find another friend, one that is as smart as you are.

[Softball00]

This same thing as happened to me and honey it's not a good thing I promise ! You seen very smart and bright I'm 25 with two kids and play softball for a carrier I was pregnant at 16 because of guys you've just got to know to be careful and you seem like your going to grow up fine just tell him that it's not going to happen and if you haven't talked with your parents do so they'll help you and will always be there for you!

[ruthlawhorne]

You already know the answer - tell him no and if he is not good with that he will leave you alone. Then you can find someone that respects your decision. You do not want to be a single mom and that is what you would be because this guy would not be around to help you raise the child.