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    Sep 28, 2013, 03:47 PM
    Shift manager
    So I like my shift manager but I don't know if he likes me back he has a wife n two kids he would sometimes say to me oh you're breaking my heart and give me puppy dog eyes WHAT SHOULD I DO
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    Sep 28, 2013, 03:50 PM
    Ignore him and do your work.
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    Sep 28, 2013, 03:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    Ignore him and do your work.
    But it's hard to when I'm the cashier
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    Sep 28, 2013, 03:52 PM
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    But it's hard to when I'm the cashier
    He's married and a father and off limits. I've been a cashier and yes, you can ignore him -- or at least his flirty comments.
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    Sep 28, 2013, 03:56 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    He's married and a father and off limits. I've been a cashier and yes, you can ignore him -- or at least his flirty comments.
    He purposely tucked in his shirt right in front of me and looked @ me while smiing
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    Sep 28, 2013, 03:59 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jojoisfly12 View Post
    He purposely tucked in his shirt right in front of me and looked @ me while smiing
    Then you turn away and get busy with counting bills and making sure they are in their proper slots in your register.

    When you are married some day and are at home struggling with two kids, are you going to be happy for your husband who is at working flirting with cashiers?
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    Sep 28, 2013, 06:39 PM
    You ignore him, if he flirts too much, ask him to stop, or ask him how his wife and kids are.
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    Sep 28, 2013, 09:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Fr_Chuck View Post
    you ignore him, if he flirts too much, ask him to stop, or ask him how his wife and kids are.
    What if he doesn't realize he's doing it
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    Sep 28, 2013, 09:40 PM
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    What if he doesn't realize he's doing it
    Of course he knows he's doing it! Be a cashier.
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    Sep 28, 2013, 09:43 PM
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    Of course he knows hes doing it! Be a cashier.
    I also do fries n he's been in the fry freezer with me and that freezer ain't very big
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    Sep 28, 2013, 09:43 PM
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    I also do fries n he's been in the fry freezer with me and that freezer ain't very big
    So you encourage him?
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    Sep 29, 2013, 02:36 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    So you encourage him?
    How would that be encouraging him most of the stuff in that freezer is heavy
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    Sep 29, 2013, 06:08 AM
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    How would that be encouraging him most of the stuff in that freezer is heavy
    So have someone else help you.
    How old are you? And he?
    Not that matters, just curious.
    My guess is that you are young and you find this inappropriate attention flattering.
    Don't be flattered if it weren't you it would be someone else.
    If the question is how to stop it, that's easy as everyone else has already stated. Keep your attitude professional and aloof, and don't encourage it by playing into it.
    He is playing with fire and you don't want to be one of the people getting burned.
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    Sep 29, 2013, 06:16 AM
    He's 29 I'm 18 n I sort of flirted with him yesterday when he came in but I don't think he noticed
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    Sep 29, 2013, 06:21 AM
    You have two choices. You either make sure you maintain a business like relationship or you report him to the HR department for sexual harassment. If he is making you feel uncomfortable, that is illegal.

    Do you work for a large chain?
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    Sep 29, 2013, 06:24 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    You have two choices. You either make sure you maintain a business like relationship or you report him to the HR department for sexual harassment. If he is making you feel uncomfortable, that is illegal.

    Do you work for a large chain?
    I work for Arbys n it doesn't bug me a lot only because I don't see him a lot
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    Sep 29, 2013, 06:29 AM
    This is a link to an employee handbook from a large Arbys franchisee:

    Arbys sexual harassment policy - Bing

    Page 7 discusses workplace harassment. Does your franchise have a similar handbook? If so I would make a copy of the page(s) that deal with harassment and leave it in his locker or office anonymously.
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    Sep 29, 2013, 06:39 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by ScottGem View Post
    This is a link to an employee handbook from a large Arbys franchisee:

    Arbys sexual harassment policy - Bing

    Page 7 discusses workplace harassment. Does your franchise have a similar handbook? If so I would make a copy of the page(s) that deal with harassment and leave it in his locker or office anonymously.
    Idk I think we do
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    Sep 29, 2013, 06:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jojoisfly12 View Post
    He's 29 I'm 18 n I sorta flirted with him yesterday when he came in but I don't think he noticed
    So maybe you are doing the flirting and interpreting his words and actions toward you as flirting back at you?
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    Sep 29, 2013, 08:18 AM
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    Idk I think we do
    You "think" you do? Such a handbook would have been required to be given to you when you were hired. Copies should be accessible to any employee.

    Doesn't sound like a properly run franchise.

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