[Homegirl 50]

You don't stay with someone because you don't want to break their heart. That is mean. Is this your first boyfriend or something? You know you can date a person for a while realize you are not a match and move on. You don't have to fall in love. Let the young man go. I think this is more about you. Be honest and do the right thing .

[Cat1864]

i'm 18.i really don't want to break his heart.since it's not a long time we met so...every day i just realize how breakable he is.that's the reason i'm not breaking up with him.i always look at the positive points he has.i like him.is it a mistake to go on and see if i can fall in love with him??!
now that's the place i'm being honest with myself.
i'm confused! i'm not selfish..just don't be that cruel..

Anna, one of the first things I said to you was that you cannot make yourself love someone. You cannot make yourself have the same depth of feelings that he does.

This may sound harsh and cruel to you, but life is sometimes harsh and cruel.

This isn't about hurting him. If it were you would break-up now because everyday you stay with him and lead him to believe you feel the same as he does or tell him you do you are hurting him. Some part of him knows you are essentially playing with his emotions. I know that isn't how you see it, but it is what you are doing.

This is about you not wanting to look like the 'bad guy'. This is about you not wanting to feel bad. But you will continue to hurt yourself until you end your confusion by letting go.

You don't want to be a 'monster'. You won't be if you walk away. It won't be easy. It will hurt. But you will both heal and move forward with your lives.

We can't make you do what you know deep down is the right thing to do. But we can point it out and give that little voice screaming to be heard through the confusion a little help.

[serafina]

If you can't even get past his accent, then you may as well just break up with him.
My mom and dad, were teenagers when they started dating, they ended up getting married. They're both middle aged now, for years they have argued a lot over little to nothing or anything, sometimes money. They don't seem to even have as many interests anymore. And that shouldn't be like it with a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship.

[jenniepepsi]

If you want to continue this relationship and try to work out the issues you are struggling with, maybe its time to see a counselor? Individual for yourself, as well as couples counseling. IT could be a great help to the both of you. Him to understand how you are feeling, and you to work through these feelings to determine if you actually want to be with him or not.

[Leah_]

Why do you suddenly 'not like' your boyfriend? Is there any reasons?

[N0help4u]

I'm guessing the things she doesn't like about him are ouutweighing the things that attracted her in the first place.