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    Jul 10, 2013, 05:27 PM
    How should I go about in this situation
    So, I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years and she is the love of my life, I can't picture my life without her. But recently she has been hanging around with my best frind a lot, she went away for a week to his house (he lives in another town) and now that she's back he is staying at her house even when I leave... and when I am around neither of them really talk to me, they sing and talk to each other, am I just being paranoid or does this seem wrong to anyone else?
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    Jul 10, 2013, 06:00 PM
    Appears that you are the 3rd wheel. I think talking to your girlfriend is what you need to do. You might have to accept bowing out so that you don't get more hurt. Really need to talk before you can know your next step.
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    Jul 11, 2013, 01:16 PM
    Why did she stay at his house for a week and why is he staying there? You need to ask her these question. You might want to ask your best friend what's up too.
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    Jul 11, 2013, 01:31 PM
    That doesn't sound like your girlfriend.

    That doesn't sound like your best friend.

    A girlfriend and a best friend would never do those things. I certainly would ask what is going on. Why in the world haven't you assuming you haven't?

    "I can't picture my life without her." - Unfortunately we can't always control who stays in our lives and who leaves. If they have done something inappropriate the best thing you can do is fill up your time with activities and have fun.
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    Jul 12, 2013, 06:54 AM
    Sounds like she is HIS girlfriend and you are the best friend now.
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    Jul 12, 2013, 07:53 AM
    Fr_Chuck hit that one right on the head.
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    Jul 12, 2013, 09:37 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    Fr_Chuck hit that one right on the head.
    That's it? I was expecting more when I clicked...

    :)
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    Jul 12, 2013, 09:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Oliver2011 View Post
    That's it? I was expecting more when I clicked...

    :)
    When they're too easy, sometimes I just let them go as there isn't enough challenge to me.
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    Jul 12, 2013, 09:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by odinn7 View Post
    When they're too easy, sometimes I just let them go as there isn't enough challenge to me.
    Touche'!
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