[zzzperrry]

So we've been together for 5.5 years. We have a child together he's 22and I'm 21when initiating I want to have sex he says he's tired. Wen we first started dating we had sex at 7months and were unseparable now we only have sex 2-3 times a monthn that's on a good month but even when we do have sex I want to go again but he says it hurts . We do fight at times latley more ii mean I don't ask him for much not even finiancial I pay ALL our bills I just want some affection from him. He told me a couple weeks ago he couldn't get an errection when we went almost three months with no sex now he's fine but doesn't want to have sex he claims he's tired I work all week and take care of our child and make dinner and I still at the end of the day want to have sex with him. What should I do

[samcreed]

I am very sorry to read about this. Sounds like your boyfriend has lost his feelings for you! You do everything, even pay all the bills? What does he do, anything?
I would consider leaving him, and do for yourself and your child. You are already taking care of both of you by yourself! I don't understand why he is too tired... he doesn't do anything! He is tired of you, but still likes you being the breadwinner and doing all the cooking... what a lazy person he is. I would get rid of him.

[odinn7]

What should you do? Leave the bum. He doesn't help with bills at all? Does he do anything? Why settle for this?