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    daniigurl Posts: 75, Reputation: 3
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    Dec 11, 2012, 01:56 AM
    Should I feel threatened?
    My old best friend and I were very close, on one particular occasion him and I ended up drinking too much one night and we hooked up, I told him the next day that it should not have happened and we seemed to be on the same page until I decided to exclusively date my current boyfriend, to which my old best friend told me he was in love with me and felt betrayed, etc. things between him I ended on bad terms, I didn't feel it was appropriate for us to still see each other or talk to one another. So its been over a year and my partner and I ended up convincing a child together. My old best friend and I were still friends on a site I go on fairly often, a blogging site. I got an anonymous message recently asking to see a picture of my son, I don't typically discuss my son on this particular site so I knew right away it was someone who knew me personally which narrowed it down to a very small list of people and I had a good idea who it was from, I visited their blog and discovered they were online. I scrolled through their postings and found a rather disturbing entry dated 3 months ago saying, "is it wrong for me to wish death upon an unborn child, its not mine or anything.". My son is 3 months old almost exactly, though he was born premature. I know its ludacris to assume this could be about me but the whole thing seemed very ironic and there were numerous indicators on his blog that made it obvious hed visited mine around the same time frame. Im not sure what to think, please help.
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    Dec 11, 2012, 02:09 AM
    If I was you I would make another account to the blogging site and make up a name or something and bluntly ask the person why the heck they would say something like that on his blogging . See if he will tell u way . That's the best I can come up with . Or if all else fails restraining order . Good Luck
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    Dec 11, 2012, 03:23 AM
    He's the only one who knows if he seriously meant he would actually act on his feelings. Have you ever wished someone was dead? I have. It doesn't mean I would kill anyone.

    I would ask him directly what he's feeling, and would also show him a picture, and also tell him to please get help for his problem. Be kind, but be firm that this is the last time you will communicate with him, and that he must get over you.
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    Dec 11, 2012, 05:07 AM
    I agree with joypulv. Make sure it is the last time he communicates or don't even communicate with him at all starting now. Then hopefully he will move forward and meet someone new to harass.

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