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    Nov 19, 2012, 06:31 PM
    Cheating..
    Okay about two years ago my girlfriend cheated on me and the day after I cheated on her but she claims she didn't have sex with her ex girlfriend but I believe she did . I found out on my own that she was cheating on me . So I cheated on her but I did have sex with my ex girlfriend . I no it was stupid but I didn't think I was going to be with her anymore cause she cheated but I loved her so I stayed with her and she proved to me she loves me and wants to be with me. But the thing is she never found out that I cheated on her , its been bugging me real bad that she don't know because I'm over here frontin like I never cheated when I did, So I felt like I couldn't be with her and not tell her what I did, so I told her and she said she wants to be with me but I feel like she don't I feel like she don't want to be with me but she doesn't want to see me with anyone else. I told her two weeks ago , she hasn't let me have sex with her or touch her. I don't know what to do , ANYONE??
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    Nov 19, 2012, 06:45 PM
    She just found out something you did years ago. Give her some time. I'm sure that when you found out she cheated you didn't accept it right away.
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    Nov 20, 2012, 06:14 AM
    If your immediate reaction upon finding out she cheated on you was to cheat on her, then this relationship has more issues than just dishonesty. Instead of dishonesty and cheating, why not build the relationship with love and honesty?
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    Nov 20, 2012, 01:28 PM
    Realistically, there's no way for a relationship to recover from cheating. Your relationship will be a source of stress and worry instead of a trustworthy partnership. I would break up with her and move on.

    Let this be a learning experience.
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