[Michelle556]

I've been dating this guy for 2 months and he claims that he loves me. The thing is I really like him but can't seem to trust him not long ago he told me that he was a player but stopped playing around. He is very funny and makes me laugh when am with him I feel so alive but we hardly spend time together the only time he comes to see me is after midnight when I confronted him about this he told me that he is always studying during the day. But he has all the time in this world for his friends he doesn't even spoil me but he spoils his friends. I feel like I don't mean anything to him the only thing we have going on in this relationship is sex which he says that he enjoys so much. I don't want to be his booty call but it seems like I am apparently he doesn't see me as a booty call. Oh and when I asked him why doesn't he ever show me that he loves me he told me that he is not the kind of guy who shows off his emotions and am expecting too much from him. I broke up with him 2 weeks ago and he asked me to take him back .I took him back but still nothing has changed.we can never spend time like a normal couple does he is always making excuses about his school work but I know in my heart that he is making excuses. I mean we are both in varsity and my work load is as much as his I never make that as an excuse when he knocks on my door after midnight.sometimes it feels like he is ashamed to be seen with me around campus. I try my best to put much effort in our relationship because I really really like him. A few hours ago he came to my block and after 30minutes he left telling me that he was going to play a video game and I should call him if I want him to come but after midnight I did call him he is not answering my calls... I really try so hard to believe him and trust him but I don't and I have a feeling that he is really into me is just that something or somebody is getting in the way please do advice me because I really don't know how to handle this situation. I still want to keep him just need him to see how much he means to me I feel so naïve and stupid

Desperate

[Gamed]

Theirs guys 1,000 times better leave him.
He only is using you for sex and your blind to it despite the fact you basically wrote it in your question.

[harmony89]

Its obvious that he just wants you for sex.. yes he probobly likes you, but that's not enough. If he really wants to be with you then he needs to put in time and effort. He may ask you to take him back but that's only because he wants to feel in control of rthe relationship.or whatever it is. Be smart don't get your feelings more involved than they already are... the sex mst be good... but I promise there is way better out there and plus men that would love to spend time with you

[Homegirl 50]

You are a booty call to him. Leave him alone and don't take him back

[Michelle556]

I guess it is clear that I am just a booty call to him its just that I've been turning a blind eye on it

[Homegirl 50]

Now is the time to walk away.
I wish you well.