Since it happens thousands of times a day all over the world, I am not sure why you are asking how can it happen... it happens because the person leaving you doesn't care about you as much as you do about her. How much you did 'to make her happy' is not relevant - you don't 'make' someone happy if their happiness depends on something like school or a career.
Yes, the pain is awful. We (almost all of us anyway) know about the pain. Tell people around you about it, but don't go on and on, just say 'please bear with me while I suffer a while' and they will gather round you. Friends are there to support us when we lose the object of our romantic love.
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