That is horrible. I am sorry. I know your in shock and can't get your ea around it but the sooner you do the better. The more attention you give him it will make things easier for him. Just try your best to accept it and move on. I know this is dofficult to understand how someone can do that but worse things happen in the world each day. People always change. 6 years and he does this... do you really want to be with someone like that if he comes back? I know you may think yes at the moment but really think about it... do u? Now is your chance to figure out what you don't want and understand that you may have been dependent and stuck on the promise that it will last but now next time you can be more careful. Take time to heal and don't go back out there jaded. Read sticky on what to expect after a Breakup that's on this site. Hope this helps. I am angry for you but things will get better. You need to be an individual. That's why I always tell couples never lose your identity when your with someone else. Anything can happen any moment. Always be able to find yourself.
|