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sashaa · Sep 23, 2012, 05:24 AM

My mum says she can't live with me and does not want to, I live with my aunt she is really wicked when I ask for help and she says no and when I walk away she calls my mum and says that I'm rude and stuff then my mum gets mad and texts me with all mean stuff like I'm mean , I can kill someone , I'm usless , I'm a nobody after have done so many things for her while she was never there. Since I was small I always wanted to be adopted and ran away from home but could not find a place things are still the same I need help please

Fr_Chuck · Sep 23, 2012, 05:51 AM

So you don't listen, you run away from home, and you think adoption, ( another form of running away) will fix it.

First how old are you ? Who has legal custody of you, If parents where is your dad ? Will mom and dad sign over to allow an adoption ?

Where are you from ?

joypulv · Sep 23, 2012, 06:14 AM

sashaa, you sound like one of a few million teens (if you are a teen) around the world. Sure, you may have had parents who couldn't love you in the way children need, but it happens to a lot of us. We suffer, we live with it, we run away, we get put in reform school, we get shipped off to relatives, we commit suicide and are gone, or kill someone else and get put away.
You are not going to get adopted, especially in another country. It's not possible. It's only remotely possible where you are and each parent would have to sign papers giving up all responsibility for you forever. But who is going to want you? People want infants to adopt. You call your aunt evil but 'want help' from her - how is she going to want to help you if you call her evil? Isn't it something that she took you in, cooks and cleans and shops and who knows what else? She is going to ship you back to your mother. Time to grow up and accept that not all adults are equipped to handle children, and you have to take care of yourself while respecting the fact that it's their roof over your head, and they are paying for all of it.

tiffanykb · Oct 22, 2012, 10:09 AM

I'm 19 years old in live in guyana yes my mom will

joypulv · Oct 22, 2012, 10:39 AM

You are 19... I'm sorry, but no one is going to adopt you. If you want to be taken care of instead of providing for yourself with a job, then find a good husband. You write and sound like a 12 year old. You should not be living off other people at your age. You aren't in poverty because you say you text each other. I'm in America and I don't even have a cell phone. I actually live in an area that doesn't have cell coverage.