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bluekiwi94 · Sep 9, 2012, 05:11 PM

Hello all, I feel depressed recently because of my relationship. My boyfriend has always been nice to me and he would always ask me what happen if I am worried or sad. But recently, when I talk to him, he would either just make a quick response like "oh" so he is answering but nothing else, or sometimes he would just ignore me. I don't feel like telling my friends or his friends because either they will tell me to break up with him or yell at him... And my boyfriend would think I'm nosy because I tell people about "our" problems. I will be going to college soon, we don't get to see each other a lot because of our strict family, but we would not mind because after he graduated from high school we can hang out more often... I really hope the situation can get better because I really love him and I don't want to lose him. I showed him I care several times but he either pretended not to notice or he said I worried too much. His message and replies are shorter than a sentence and he does not say sweet things to me anymore... What can I do to make this situation better ?

PS. I know he is not seeing another girl because I trust him and I know he won't ever cheat behind my back. We've dated for almost a year, so I am sure he is not that kind of person.

C0bra_M3nace · Sep 11, 2012, 03:59 AM

If you're not happy, talk to them. If it doesn't do anything, leave.

I don't think, at this point, that you have any other option other than leaving. If you don't want to leave then you'll have to start dealing with it because I don't think it's ever going to change. You've already talked to him and it doesn't look like it's done anything at all, so you have no other choice. Unless of course you want to live in a depressing relationship.

I wish · Sep 11, 2012, 12:45 PM

Can't you just be honest with him and tell him how you really feel?

If you're able to tell us here, then you should be able to express the same concerns to him.

If he still gives you the "oh" response, then why are you still with him? A good boyfriend would be more considerate of your feelings and take you seriously. If he's not even taking you seriously, then this relationship is going to end whether you want to or not.

Therefore, I strongly suggest that you try to talk it out with him and see how it goes from there.