[sad-deep]

I am 23 and I am a reserve kind of person and have very few friends. :( All of them are so busy in there own life that no one has time even to meet. :( :( I had girlfriend whom I loved a lot. She was everything for me.

Being with her were my happiest days in my life but because of my bad luck she left me. :( Its been almost 5 months. I just cannot forget her. Not a day passes when I don miss her. We don't even talk, mostly she does not even wants to talk to me. :( I just cannot come out of her, she was my first love.

I feel so lonely that passing each day becomes like a year. I don't know what to do, where to go. How to forget her. I am going through worst phase of my life. Please help.

[Adrian Roe]

There is a saying by Ralph Waldo Emerson "A man is what he thinks about all day long". Stop focusing your energy into something that is hurting and upsetting you, it just makes things worse. There are plenty of stunning girls out there who are lonely too. I know where to find these girls too. Join a dance school. The worse you dance, the more they will try to help you. You will soon forget about your ex. Trust me...

[joypulv]

Hi sad-deep... sure, we all go through this kind of loss and loneliness.. I know that's not much comfort, but you are not alone. For one thing, you can help out here. For another, you can join classes like Adrian suggested, and it doesn't have to be dance. Anything! Or you can volunteer. Get a cat. Go back to school. Start on a new skill, like chess or woodworking or do something dangerous like sky diving.

[talaniman]

Read the stickies here and take a few good suggestions they offer

Relationships - Ask Me Help Desk

That first love break up sucks for us all (all break ups suck), but it will get better, if you get busy.