[Sophie_3942]

My partner and I have been planning about moving in with each other , I was so thrilled about the thought of us finally being able to wake up beside each other . I've recently had this fall out with him about his wondering eye.
We live a fair bit away from one another but he's always the one to travel the distance to see me. We see each other every second weekend and are on the phone all the time so we are always keeping incontact. But the thing is every time we are together he seems to always ogle other women , like he doesn't just look once he has to keep taking glances. I just can't take it anymore , he told me last night over the phone that he only does that because apparently I get dressed up for everyone else. So I told him that I'm over his its over. I still have him very much and we have both done a lot for each other for the past 6 months, I'm wanting to be able to let this go and go live with him because I'm willing to do that . I want to make this work but I'm afraid that I won't be able to handle his wondering eye and just go our separate ways anyway.

Help me please , I'm so confused

[Sophie_3942]

I still love him very much *

[joypulv]

Some men are the most harmless of oglers and make the best and most loyal people to have around. It all depends on the degree...
Please tell us more about you looking good for everyone but him? Is that true?

[Sophie_3942]

[QUOTE=joypulv;3215106] yes I know but it does hurt when I'm trying to look him in the eyes and he's looking around taking notice of everyone else.

Oh just the simplest things etc : straightening my hair, putting some make up on. I'm only doing it because I'm subconscious of myself . I try to tell him that but sometimes I think its just an excuse for him to have a reason for hurting me