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    Aw3s0m3B01 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 27, 2012, 04:16 PM
    I'm gay, and I'm in love with a guy who I'm not sure is straight, bi, or gay?
    I met this really nice and cute guy at a retreat and he's very nice to me. I always see him staring at me. When I notice he turns away. He always tells me the corniest jokes ever. I think he's straight but I get a feeling he's got a thing for me. But I feel like I'm just making false hope for myself. What should I do? Because I can't stop what I feel about him, O.o
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    Jul 28, 2012, 08:29 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Aw3s0m3B01 View Post
    I met this really nice and cute guy at a retreat and he's very nice to me. I alwayz see him staring at me. When I notice he turns away. He alwayz tells me the corniest jokes ever. I think he's straight but I get a feeling he's got a thing for me. But I feel like I'm just making false hope for myself. What should I do? Because I can't stop what I feel about him, O.o
    I would take things slowly,hang out,build a friendship ,get to know him
    False hopes usually come from rushing into it and a misunderstanding

    From what you said about him eyeing you,it is possible he likes you too

    Go up to him and chat about what you two might have in common(like the retreat)and see where it leads.Tell each other some funny stories

    Go to an event that you enjoy,and ask him to go along as friends... the point here is to interact with one another and really see if you like him
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    Jul 28, 2012, 05:40 PM
    I guess people just don't ask direct questions any more do they? But that would spare you false hope and mind drama.

    This isn't love but simple attraction by the way.

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