[margie454]

I have been with my now husband for two years total. I had to take a trip last year and just found out that while I was gone he cheated on me with at least four women that I know... Needless to say that I am hurt. He keeps saying that he loves me and that he was very hurt by the fact that I had left and didn't know how to deal with it... I get it being apart was hard as it was hard for me too. That doesn't mean that I went out and cheated on him. All of the opposite, whenever I felt sad and lonely and looked for refuge by writing him a poem, a letter, sending him a video message... This hurts me deeply.. We are now married and I am expecting our first child.. I feel like I want to leave and just forget about him... I don't know what to do... How could he? Did we build a relationship on my honesty and his lies?? Am I suppose to be OK with this because we weren't married at that time? How do I know he won't do this again?? I don't know what to do...

[rbdrbd]

Your right,you don't know if he'll do it again,and he did do wrong by cheating.. but you can't base your relationship on just that one mistake... I'm sure the good in your relationship outweighs the bad right? And your expecting? For the sake of your babies health and yours,you should let it go,and concentrate on your baby,you shouldn't be stressing.. talk about that after babies born.