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    rosierobinson89 Posts: 21, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 24, 2012, 07:46 AM
    Depressed at 13?
    Hello,okay so um..
    As I've said,I can't see my sister,it keeps bugging me.
    In school there's a boy called Jake, he calls me a fat whore,slut,slag etc.. its making want to just lock away.
    I've broke up with my boyfriend and he's making up saying I'm pregnant with his baby,we haven't even had sex! We kissed and hugged that's it!
    I'm letting my mother down, since I want to do makeup!All my siblings but Beth (the one I'm not allowed to see) have done so well, Abi's a artist,Alex is going to Art Collage and James has just left uni, my mum says I act like beth sometimes which makes me so angry and upset!I'm nothing like that girl!I don't hit my mum,trash the house, I've never been invloled with the police, I try and focus at school since I'm doing my gcses now!
    All this is making me so depressed!I want to just die seriously I do! Please just help with some comments!PLEASE?What should I do!?
    Love Rosiiee!<3
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    Jun 24, 2012, 08:41 AM
    At 13, the boy calling you fat so and so most likely has a crush on you at 13 that is still how some boys deal with it, IF not he is a bully and who cares what he things.

    So you had a boyfriend, while 13 is too young, you are now finding out why, since you can't handle or deal with the emotional issues. Boys almost always lie to their other guy friends about scoring and having sex with the girls they date, They want to have a rep or being a "MAN" this is at about any age, though high school anyway, so get used to it.

    So in 9 months he will be proven a lier and no one will care since he got a new girlfriend and you are dating someone else by then.

    This is life and how it works
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    Jun 24, 2012, 08:42 AM
    If you truly want to die you need to speak to someone - a counsellor at school, a responsible adult, someone. And I agree with FrChuck - this is typical behavior of boys that age. Some continue into adulthood, by the way.

    You cannot control what other people say. You can not let it bother you.

    My concern is that your other posts contain conflicting or questionable info - for example, https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/child-...rt-665369.html.

    I'm not sure that you are being truthful here. I also realize your mother has a restraining order against your sister, who tried to kill her BUT you live with your father, not your mother. Again, I'm not certain about the truth.

    You need to talk to a counsellor - and I say that kindly. Why be unhappy when you COULD come to grips with some of your problems and feel better about yourself?

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