[nancy14212]

Hi, I am engaged and after my marriage I have to give certain exams to get a job, but as my fiancé is not very regular on phones or try to ignore me, I am not able to study that well most of the time I don't like to study when he doesn't talk to me, I start taking everything negatively and practically I know it's very necessary for me to study.

My fiancé says he loves me a lot but he has a very casual attitude for me, he is not at all interested in talking on phones and texting me. And if I do then it's not necessary he will answer them and we can't meet also as we are both in different countries. I feel hurt most of the times because of his behavior... now sometimes I don't like to call him or text him or talk to him when he calls...
Please suggest something. I love him because his thought process is good but sometimes it really hurts that he doesn't care for me, he will not answer my call even if he knows I am worried for him. And the only reason he gives is that he likes to talk face to face...
I have tried many things so that he improves a little but no use. I tried writing letters, told him verbally; even I reduced my phone calls, texts etc...

Please suggest something.

Thanks

[JudyKayTee]

I don't know what type of advice you need - if you intend to have a career you need to study.

If your boyfriend treats you badly - and it appears he does - you need to decide whether you want to marry him.

Why are you with this man if he treats you badly?

So far I've answered 3 threads on this same subject. Please stop posting the same thing over and over again.

[talaniman]

Leave him alone, he will not change, get a girl friend to chat with and text. What good for the goose is good for the gander too, so ignore his texts and calls, let him write a letter.

Its nonsense to let this self absorbed idiot jerk mess up your chances at a career. Utter nonsense.