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    Jina011 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Jun 3, 2012, 08:49 AM
    Why does my boyfriend treat me like this?
    I've been with my boyfrined for nearly 2 years. I am still young. I really need help. I have never met anyone in my life like this. I was a virgin before I met him but he wasn't. He's so controlling. He doesn't let me have any friends at all. If he argues with me, he'll start texting my friends pretending to be me. It really annoys me and I feel embarrassed. He's so controlling that he's even stopped me from going to my sisters house. He pays for my contract so that he can control who I ring and who I text. The biggest problem is his past really bothers me, it never use to bother me until he started throwing it in my face that he got his ex pregnant twice, and that he use to do everything for her and blahblah. He constantly rings my house phone if I don't pick up. About a of month ago, he put me in the back of his car and started threatening me. I really need advice on what to do about this? Can somebody help me please :(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(:(
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    Jun 3, 2012, 10:25 AM
    Red flag alert!
    Time to walk;you do not need this;it's abuse.
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    Jun 3, 2012, 11:02 AM
    You can help yourself this time. Walk away from this guy.
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    Jun 3, 2012, 11:52 AM
    Controlling, alienating you from family and friends, threatening you (which by the way is just the beginning of physically abusing you). I don't see any good outcomes here if you hang around.
    Get away from him now, don't contact him and reject any communication from him.
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    anthonyrichardc Posts: 28, Reputation: 5
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    Jun 3, 2012, 02:23 PM
    Get away from him. And if he does not let you go, notify the Police and get a restraining order against him because he started to threaten you.

    He does not deserve you at all.

    Best of luck.
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    Jun 3, 2012, 03:11 PM
    I was in a relationship like, this and he ended up beating me I was smart and got away fast I suggest up do the same and if you are worried about him getting mad and finding you and hurting up then find a place that he doesn't know about
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    Jun 5, 2012, 01:44 PM
    This is a classic case of emotional abuse. Run for the hills and consider getting a restraining order. Emotional abuse eventually leads to physical abuse. This guy is totally coco loco.

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