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    jayson1993 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    May 20, 2012, 09:12 AM
    Gf of 3 years cheated a year ago, and still talking to the guy.
    My girlfriend I've been with for 3 years had cheated on me a year ago. And then she hung out with him a few weeks ago and said nothing happened. All they did was talk. I want to kill the guy with a passion, I just want to shoot him. I wish I could just break up with her but I fell in love with her hard. I wish she cared about me the way I cared about her. I have no trust for her. I'm always thinking negative things. What should I do? Are all girls like this :/?
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    May 20, 2012, 11:19 AM
    Okay if she cheated on you once, what makes you think she won't again some plle don't change an no not all girls are like this
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    May 20, 2012, 01:12 PM
    Mate, if she cheated on you, I guess that means she doesn't honor the relationship. If she did it once, she might as well do it again. I've just went out of a 3 year relationship as well and I'm positive that neither me nor her have ever cheated. So no, not all girls are like that.

    From my point of view, if you can't trust your girlfriend, this relationship is nearing an end.
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    May 20, 2012, 07:20 PM
    Obviously guy, your love is stronger than hers, and maybe she doesn't deserve yours. Not a lot of guys would be that in love they stick around after being cheated on, after finding out their partner is back to talking to the one she cheated on you with.

    What was her excuse after she told you?
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    May 21, 2012, 10:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by jayson1993 View Post
    . I wish she cared about me the way i cared about her. I have no trust for her. I'm always thinking negative things. What should I do? Are all girls like this :/?
    Not all girls are like this, but goodness, what do you mean you don't know what to do? She does not care for you as you do for her and you don't trust her. You leave her, that's what you do.
    The problem is not the guy, but her.
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    May 21, 2012, 12:08 PM
    No trust, negative thinking all the time, want to kill for someone that doesn't value you?

    What is the point? Break up with her and move on, and yes... it is THAT easy. You just make the choice, you share it with her, and you go no contact, forever. There will be other girls, not all of them are this way, you should have let this go the moment she cheated on you, lesson learned.
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