[xbitterlovex]

I want to find my real mom and dad how could I do that? I really want to meet them.:confused: :)

[Fr_Chuck]

Your REAL mom and dad will be the people who raised you, assuming you were adopted. There will never be another mom and dad.

You have sperm and egg donors who gave you life but they are not parents and most certainly not a mom and dad.

If you need to find them because of medical issues that is a different things.

Assuming again you are adopted what does your real parents think about you looking for them ? What do you expect to find? What are you wanting out of this ?
And are you ready for the pain if you find them and are rejected ?
If you were the product of rape or incest, do you want to know ?

I am not saying we should not look, but I do believe we need to think of what we may find before we do and also consider who we may hurt ( our real parents who raised us) if we do look.

[exotic pet]

For one I'm sorry that your adopted being adopted is awful and unforgiven and its hard to be with family that gave you up but I wish you best if you can find them and have a relationship with them I don't have any good advice because adoption is hard to live with all I can say is I wish you the best of luck in finding them