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    Darkangelxx Posts: 60, Reputation: 5
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    #21

    Apr 26, 2012, 07:20 PM
    No I'm over him I do ignore I've deleted him and evening I by even think any him anymore so I'm good I don't need no advice anymore thanks
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    #22

    May 11, 2012, 02:09 PM
    What do I do ?
    Well me n my boyfriend have been going out for a while now n well last might he started acting strange I.asked him was he OK he said kindof n I said what's wrong n he says nothing I think I shld just go n I said no tell me n he sayd I'm going, n he hung up I txted him saying tell me what's wrong, n I knew it was something bad bcs this has happened before n he says I kissed another girl today n I told OK its over bye n he called saying hey I said hi n he said it was more than just kissing n I told him I cldnt do this anymore bcs he s did this before I togs him we shld just break up n he daid noo ill kill myself if u leave me, I don't k what to do :S
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    #23

    May 11, 2012, 05:12 PM
    He not good for u leave him
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    #24

    May 11, 2012, 05:13 PM
    I'm afriad he might kil hisself I don't want or need that on my convos n I'm trying to leave him but I dj what to do.abt the killing thing
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    #25

    May 11, 2012, 05:18 PM
    What if he thought you would kill yourself if he cheated on you by kissing (or more) someone else?
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    #26

    May 11, 2012, 06:07 PM
    He would probably not cheat on me anymore, but he poetically wldnt care he dsmt care if I'm feeling bad he just go to the subject about sex
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    #27

    May 11, 2012, 06:11 PM
    You do realize that, by threatening suicide, he's manipulating you to stick around, don't you? You're giving him all your power.
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    #28

    May 11, 2012, 06:16 PM
    Yeah I gss I k he's not going to do it, bcs if he was he wld have done it now,n I just want to get rid of him I'm tired of his bs , so thanks for the advice maybe it wel help
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    #29

    May 11, 2012, 06:29 PM
    And the next time you post, you will write in English so we can read it?
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    #30

    May 11, 2012, 06:46 PM
    No I write n txt form where I shorten the words but OK
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    #31

    May 11, 2012, 06:49 PM
    No texting is allowed on this site.
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    #32

    May 11, 2012, 06:53 PM
    I don't text I just write and text you know how yiu talk in text where you like phrase the words so there shorter well that's what,I do

    That's what I mean and I sometimes type in the wrong key
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    #33

    May 11, 2012, 06:57 PM
    No texting. Pretend your fourth grade teacher is watching and checking your spelling.
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    #34

    May 11, 2012, 07:00 PM
    Um OK n I don't text ever I know it us not allowed an I don't do it
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    #35

    May 11, 2012, 07:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Darkangelxx View Post
    Yeah I gss I k hes not gonna do it, bcs if he was he wld have done it now,n I just want to get rid of him im tired of his bs , so thanks for the advice maybe it wel help
    You don't text? Hmmmm.

    Oh, and you have to spell words correctly too. And use capitals and punctuation.
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    #36

    May 12, 2012, 04:33 AM
    Umm okay
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    #37

    May 12, 2012, 06:11 AM
    Leave him simple as that never let someone emotional control you.

    I have no sympathy for people who threat others with the act of killing ones self..

    This is off the cuff and I will probable get a lot of bad press for this..
    And this is my opinion.
    And I in no way want for this to happen. Again only a though..

    But if he does kill himself then hopefully one of the poor people in this world that is hanging onto life.. With cancer. Will get a 2nd chance
    This world and life should only be for the people that want to be in it.
    As for the rest. Well enjoy oblivion.

    Just to go back to my point cut this kid lose.. H is a patheic exsecues for a human being. And as for killing himself.. Well if he does it's not your fault.. It's the act of a very very weak mind trying to escape his problems.
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    #38

    May 12, 2012, 06:22 AM
    Leave him. He won't kill himself. He will cheat on you again. Simple.
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    #39

    May 12, 2012, 06:45 AM
    I asked y he would do that n he says he doesn't want to be alone yeah that sounds pathetic , and wow you are right truthfaith I have more important stuff to worry about than him,when he said he didn't want to be alone that was enough to tell me he did not care one bit about me
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    #40

    May 12, 2012, 08:15 AM
    No he doesn't care, he just needs somebody around to cater to his own needs and fear, and if you free yourself by leaving, he will get a new victim. Hmmm, he will get a new victim whether you leave him alone, or NOT!!

    So leave him alone and stop being his loving willing victim!

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