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    flowerchildfala Posts: 96, Reputation: 16
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    Apr 15, 2012, 07:06 PM
    Can my relationship be fixed?
    Me and my fiancé had a fight Friday night about me having plans to go out with my friends on Saturday night. He likes me to ask him in advance about it in case he might have plans for us. We only see each other Friday, Saturday and Sunday due to his work schedule. However since he hadn't mentioned anything about us going out Saturday night I told my friend I would come to her birthday dinner. I told him and he got upset that I hadn't ran it with him beforehand and that he has told me to do this in the past.

    He also said he was upset that we weren't going to be seeing much of each other this weekend now. He stopped talking to me and when I texted him last night apologizing. He was really rude and kept putting me down saying 'I'm ignorant to his feelings, I'm cold and heartless, I always screw up'.

    I went to see him at work on his lunch break and he said he was still hurt, then didn't speak to me at all. I really don't know what to do now, as I have already apologised. I left him today with the situation made even more worse as both of us didn't speak and the tension has gotten very bad.

    I don't know what to do! Please help!!
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    Apr 15, 2012, 08:07 PM
    Never give a child attention when they are having a hissy fit. Ignore them until they apologize for being bad, and using foul language. You don't fix it, its his fault so he has to fix it. Let him, and if he takes to long, and his attitude still hurts, dump the fool.
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    Apr 15, 2012, 09:41 PM
    How is this his fault? I don't understand that bit

    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Never give a child attention when they are having a hissy fit. Ignore them until they apologize for being bad, and using foul language. You don't fix it, its his fault so he has to fix it. Let him, and if he takes to long, and his attitude still hurts, dump the fool.
    How is this his fault?
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    Apr 15, 2012, 09:45 PM
    Instead of talking he gets mad, that's why its his fault, and he made it worse by not accepting your apology.
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    Apr 15, 2012, 11:44 PM
    You have to run your social life by him?
    This is 2012,not 1950.

    Leave him to sulk;personally I think you can do a lot better than a petulant child who comes across as a control freak.
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    Apr 16, 2012, 12:13 AM
    I don't think things are going to end, he clearly still cares. If that weren't that case, he wouldn't care that you were not spending time together that weekend. I have to say though, it seems a bit childish.
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    Apr 16, 2012, 10:57 AM
    He is throwing a tantrum and you are allowing him to do so. Let him get mad, if he wants to be with you he can act like a man, not a child. Tell him to grow up and to stop being a sissy.
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