[amseia2000]

Hi, I'm a poor man. I'm 26 and my wife is 21 and she is peregnant 8 months. 10 months ago we decided to have a baby, so we didn't use condom and she got pregnant. But two days ago she admitted that she didn't pregnant by me and baby isn't mine. She said she had her bosses black baby in her stomach and she said I have to deal with that.

She know I love her so much and I can't live without her, so I don't know what I have to do now.
I have to raise a black baby. It so humilated me beacause people will understand I'm not her father and my wife slept with another. She said she always like to have a black baby so she decided to have a real man like her 30 years boss so what I have to do now?

[J_9]

There is nothing you can do but wait until the baby is born to see whether it is black. It would also be best to take a DNA test once the baby is born.

[smkanand]

Man, your wife cheated you badly. But wait with utmost patience, let the baby come. See the baby, if possible do DNA test. Later decide to move on. In the mean time don't promise or commit anything to your wife. Just help her to get over this phase, that is the best for both of you know. And yes, it is humiliating. If the baby proves not be yours then I would suggest to leave your wife because life is nothing without self respect. The baby is responsibility of your wife's boss not your! Remember that, this boss must know and share the responsibility if the baby proves to be his. Good luck.